kilo riley
Well-Known Member
There's something about a big girl who likes fat men. Especially so if they are also a feeder. My wife is one but moreso the former. She is a passive feeder. The kind that makes you your favorite food and makes enough for a family of six knowing it will all go in your belly. Or like when she says she's picking up some mexican food and I ask her to get me a burrito and she comes back with two burritos cuz she wasn't sure what kind I wanted. Ive gotten really heavy since we've been together but we've never had a stuffing session or did any of the feedist things you read about in stories. In fact ever since my weight settled north of 400 her quasi-feeder ways subsided. She's always playfully teased me for how heavy I was getting. "oh dear Hun, you're only thirty lbs less than me now" and "oh boy, you're only ten lbs less" and finally after she had lost a bit and I went on a but if a hefty spurt she chimed in with "oh baby, you're over 50 lbs heavier than me now".
Her subtle teasing and general cheekiness regarding my weight would have no effect on me if she wasn't big herself. Theres something about BBW getting their men fat that I can't quite put my finger on even though I'm married to one. Is it the power they have because they are big? Is it that they are, with a wink and a nod as a big girl themselves, ushering you into a life of excess weight? Is it something more subconscious? Is it as if they are stripping you of your masculinity through putting excess weight on you and you are becoming more like them with your big hips and moobs?
When I got substantial moobs my wife started calling them my "Dolly Parton's". Then started calling them "dollies". It was a power move (she's domme. I'm sub) and also a way to feminize without completly emasculating. I remember I pushed back a little and she said "you're my man, you just have bigger tits than me". We laughed and I think I understood it more. That's not to say I fully understand what's so alluring about BBW feeders. That's still a learning process
Her subtle teasing and general cheekiness regarding my weight would have no effect on me if she wasn't big herself. Theres something about BBW getting their men fat that I can't quite put my finger on even though I'm married to one. Is it the power they have because they are big? Is it that they are, with a wink and a nod as a big girl themselves, ushering you into a life of excess weight? Is it something more subconscious? Is it as if they are stripping you of your masculinity through putting excess weight on you and you are becoming more like them with your big hips and moobs?
When I got substantial moobs my wife started calling them my "Dolly Parton's". Then started calling them "dollies". It was a power move (she's domme. I'm sub) and also a way to feminize without completly emasculating. I remember I pushed back a little and she said "you're my man, you just have bigger tits than me". We laughed and I think I understood it more. That's not to say I fully understand what's so alluring about BBW feeders. That's still a learning process
