No harm done

I didn’t think you were pushing. Like, a big part of me wants to anyway. It’s just a hard thing to commit to.
and yeah, I know you’re right about Jack. That makes me happy that I was able to fill a need for him. But at the same time, he encouraged me to de-lurk and get involved, but now that I have, he barely comes around anymore. It’s all good, though. I just like to tease him

lol
Gaining is a lot of fun, a thrilling adventure, and especially so if you already have a big appetite. For me, it’s a wonderful feeling as it’s a huge turn on and an intense feeling of liberation. Also love to see myself (and others) expanding and becoming who we always wanted to be.
That being said, it IS a commitment and requires self confidence, wanting to be unique, and overcoming societal pressure. It took me a long time to get to this point...and I think it was even more special when I got to share a mutual gain years back with my ex girlfriend. I think it was this relationship that gave me the courage to finally let go and go for it.
Even today, I don’t gain recklessly, but closely keep tabs of my health and how I’m feeling along the journey. I still exercise a bit and keep active, and mix healthy indulgence in with the rich and fattening stuff.
Everyone is different, and has different tolerance levels, as well as what feels right for each individual person.
Personally, If you’re feeling like this is something you want to do...try it out! Set small goals and see what works for you! Most importantly, whatever you decide...have fun and be yourself!
All the best!!