Best Place to Have Sex?

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    In your opinion, where is the best place to have a sexual encounter? Bed/bedroom, floor, kitchen, bath tub, shower, pool, washing machine, etc. If could be another place such as a beach, cabin, tent, roller coaster (I don't know how you'd get away with it but more power to ya!). This question is geared toward real-life experience rather than fantasy, with considerations toward shared weight and sturdiness/stability as well.
     
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    A huge king sized bed with a firm mattress is my favourite. I would love to get one of these beds but they are only sold in the USA.

    https://www.bigfigmattress.com/
     
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    Guess I gotta rent a U-Haul to help out a friend!
     
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    Bacon and beds at the border. I wonder what the customs officers will think. LOL
     
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    Ummm... breakfast in bed?
     
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    I totally agree with your sturdy, king-sized bed idea. I'm a big fan of showers (and tubs to a degree). Something nice and roomy with a seat, like this one. Luxury Shower.jpg
     
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    That is the BEST shower I have seen so far. Not crazy about that window though.
     
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    Yeah, gonna need some really good curtains for that window.
     
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    Frosted film and window shutters. The light still gets in if you want it and you can have privacy with the shutters if you want that.
     
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    Makes sense. My sense of decorating is not the best.
     
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    I just see things I like and go with that. I'm not into frilly girly things. I like functionality.
     
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    I hate to sound like a broken record but again, I agree.
     
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    Honestly, beds really are comfortable. And especially if neither of you is thin or young, comfort counts for a lot!

    In a northern river with some conveniently positioned rock ledges was pretty great, but later we read about the dangers of having sex in the water, so that drops off the list.

    Out in a hidden corner of a snowy field, on a platform of snowshoes covered with a parka was actually quite comfortable, and the chill and thrill were excellent, but positioning was hard as we both needed somewhat distributed weight, which made it require a bit more acrobatics than was really conducive to enjoying things fully. (Water beds have some of the same issues, in my limited experience).

    On a blanket on the floor in front of a fireplace is nice, but you either need a padded mat too, or to plan for nobody to have their weight on their knees for too long.

    And hence my vote for a nice comfy bed.
     
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    I had a water bed when I was married. Sex was never a problem for me in it. Very easy on the knees. (I was on top a lot)

    Tent sex is fun. Hospital shower stall sex ... kind of fun. Bathroom sex worked well. He sat on the toilet and I just straddled him.

    Pull out sofas ... not the best but we worked it out. The one in front of the fireplace was nice.

    Outdoor summer sex in the park woods ..... very nice. :)
     
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    I’ve always thought I was the only one! Years back I had a girlfriend who actually...I’m not even sure I should share this...relieved herself while we were having sex. She said it was something she always wanted to do.
     
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    The lid was down when my guy at the time sat on it. The bathroom was the only private place we could get in the house for a few minutes after not seeing each other for a month. You know how it is.
     
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    Ok haha that wasn’t how it was for my experience. :eek:
     
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    On top of a car near a secluded lake at night.
    By a fountain at a closed outdoor cafe (again at night).
    On a boat out in the bay (motion of the ocean and all that).
    In a BIG bath tub.

    Are we noticing a water theme here?:cool:
     
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    My favorite spot:
    Her bedroom. She had a reinforced, cushioned bench across the foot of her bed. It was only about a foot off the ground, a foot in width, and about 5ft long.
    I would lay on top of it, and she would straddle me. Her feet would rest on the ground, as if sitting normally. This gave her the best leverage. Cannot describe how amazing it was. Definitely my top choice.
     
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    I’m boring .. just give it to me in bed please. I like comfort!
     
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