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BHM asking out FFA?

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Tad

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I want to hear stories of BHM asking out FFA. I don’t care if it comes from FFA or from BHM or from a 3rd party observer. But I am curious about as much info as possible about what led up to it (did they know each other for a while, or just meet? On-line or off?, etc), and his thoughts (did he have high confidence she’d say yes? Was he just taking a wild gamble? Did he know she was an FFA or that she was interested in him, somehow?)

One repeated refrain on here is from FFA, lamenting that fat guys never ask them out. The response from the BHM side of things is typically “Well, how would a fat guy have any idea that you might be interested in him, when the vast majority of women wouldn’t be?” So I want to hear about when this ‘gap’ was overcome, and how it went down.

For that matter, even if the guy isn't a BHM, but would be of some other demographic that could expect most women might not be interested (basically that stereotypes say women would not be attracted to), that could be relevant too.

For my part, meh, I wasn’t more than a little bit chubby when I was single, and I was too nervous/shy to make the first move, so I have no story of my own to contribute.
 

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