Yeah, that's part of the reason the phone calls to ask for money are becoming less frequent. I'm too through with them! A couple weekends back, my family had an event to honor the elders and can you believe my pathetic cousin tried to get me to buy her food stamps from her?! Where are they doing that at?! So I told her, rightfully, if I needed them she should give them to me for free since as a hardworking tax payer, I paid for them already. Shut her right up. She really gets on my nerves with that ignorant stuff.Oh ok. Maybe I was being overly sensitive. I get what you're saying. I have some relatives who chose to live below their potential, also. They don't believe anything is wrong with their lifestyle and they get offended if you try to help them, because in their eyes they don't need any help. But, they get pissed when I distance myself from them, but I'm more like, "Whatever, I'm done. They can be mad at me if they want."