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The 'toxic white male' rhetoric may be an issue, but it will quickly be tossed aside by the vast majority of women who really are just looking for a good man. If you are financially secure and not actually physically 'ugly' (and no, you do not need to look like anything special), then there is a whole world of single, 40+ BBW women out there. Although, as Screaming Chicken said, you are more likely than not to encounter women with a whole lot of emotuional baggage from failed past relationships and decades of discrimination. So, it is no cakewalk to find a partner in this paradigm, but far from being some immense hurdle.............

i HAVE ENTERED MY 60'S. When I was younger I found BBW could move a lot better than when they had aged. Carnal activity is active event. However in saying that I have seen many people who when married were slimmer than they are now but they still love each over and just as active with each other.
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stop being attracted to bbw and ssbbw ? mmm, difficult question. i dont think that is likely for most of the people. you dont go from being attracted to blondies to latins in a heartbet or over the years. it can happen for sure but it is not likely. personally... its been over 20 years since i identify myself as a ... i was called a chubbychaser at first. by a chubby girl. and on the contrary, while i do appreciate thin girls i am now much more at peace knowing that i will always prefer the chubby one, and if she gains, the better. that is probably the only thing still in the air. do i enjoy more the overweight or the gain weight? but, the goal is always to get the ssbbw for sure
 

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I don’t think that’s possible for most people. You like what you like within certain parameters. While I am physically attracted to a wide range of fat women, I am never physically attracted to skinny or slim women. I don’t think I could control that to change. However, within the range of fat women, I have experienced a shift from being mainly attracted to chubby thick BBWs to very fat SSBBWs.
 
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Not for me. I am attracted, often strongly, to slim / fit women, but I know deep down if I was ever single again, if I ended up in a relationship with such a woman I would always be encouraging/ enabling her to put on weight. It’s just how I’m wired, I can’t turn it off.
 

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Not for me. I am attracted, often strongly, to slim / fit women, but I know deep down if I was ever single again, if I ended up in a relationship with such a woman I would always be encouraging/ enabling her to put on weight. It’s just how I’m wired, I can’t turn it off.
So, you are saying that you have a fixation on taking slim women and fattening them up!? I am a little unsettled by that. However, there are many slim women who are miserable, because they have a natural tendency to be heavier (see Hunter McGrady) and literally must starve themselves to remain 'svelte'. So interacting with such a woman and helping her to accept her body's natural tendencies could be a good thing.
 

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