Sometimes, we are too sensitive.
I just picked this sentence because it made me thinking.
Maybe it is true that we are too sensitive, especially about those clips and other things that originally were not meant to harm.
Unfortunately if something is online and comments are allowed on things like that you usually can find some disgusting comments which I try to avoid to read and worry about. But I agree on the possibility of being too negative towards something that should be seen as positive.
When it comes to real life I have a slightly different view on this.
"She is the big /fat woman over there." I am ok with that.
I learned over the years that most comments or actions are meant to harm. And I am sensitive on what people do or say.
If they say loudly and laugh: "look how fat she is" - it is a description of my shape. Everybody can see it and actually I am aware of my shape. I don't need this description. I (now) can deal with those people.
I also can deal with those people looking at me with disgust or admiration.
When people spit in my face because I am fat (yeah, things like that happen) I actually see it as offence and I need to be sensitive. And in real life I need to be sensitive what's happening around me.
For media projects or productions I probably tend to be too sensitive and expect a negative connotation.
In my real life I need to figure out with whom I can get along and whom I should ignore.