Since my wife has gained, there are some little things that have changed that really turn me on. Aside from the fact that she snacks constantly, she's started to rest stuff on her belly when she sits on the couch. Cloths are another thing. She used to wear jeans all the time, now she wears mostly sweats or stretch pants and a tank around the house and dresses for work or going out. And the thing that really gets to me is when she refers to herself as a big or fat girl. She does that the most around her BBW friends. Just wondered if anyone else has had the same experience.