I'm also pretty new to the board -- to be honest, I didn't even know there was a BHM/FFA chat room! I'll have to find it. I think the above poster has a point, that with IMs, a chat room seems like a lesser, second option. But I understand your point too, CuriousKitten. In a way chat rooms are a different experience than direct messaging.
Yah, what he said. Also, some BHM are also FA, and some FFA are also BBW, so which room should they be in??? And in the Dimensions chat there is a private message feature, so I think a lot of time the more flirtatious comments get passed in that mode anyway, no matter the room.Actually, chat does pretty well...in the BBW/FA room. It's a matter of numbers. Kinda like it takes money to make money...it takes people in a chat room to draw people into a chat room. The BHM/FFA room just has not had the critical mass to take off, so the BHMs and the few FFAs who chat generally go where the people are...the BBW/FA room...and once friends are made there, there is no reason to go sit in a room by your self hoping someone might come along.
I tried to use the chat today and it wouldnt load for some reason. If anyone ever wants to chat with me my yahoo messenger ID is the same as my username here. tribaltattoos75 hope to hear from some of yall soon.
Im new to Dimensions also and I was curious as to why everyone was only in that one room. It seem to be an outdate form of chat. Im not much of a chatter but I would love to come and relax in the evening with others. anyone up for a chat when im online Id love to hear from ya.