No, I'm not a complete arrogant jackass. It's the title of a song and I thought the sentiment was funny and it seemed an introductory post would be a good time to use it. I have snuck a few posts onto various threads, so I thought I'd go ahead and introduce myself. I'm an FFA and have been since my first crush when I was just a wee lass. I just recently, however, realized that the guy in my life has to be a BHM. A cute, nice, thin guy just doesn't have that extra special effect on me that a BHM does. I had never heard these terms FFA, BHM, etc until about 6 months ago. (I'm almost 30 so I guess I've been living in a bubble) I found this board and shamelessly lurked for several months, then finally decided to join. I love this board. First off, the eye candy is spectacular. But more importantly, the thoughtfulness and general good will of the posters here is impressive. You BHMs make me that much happier I'm an FFA and my fellow FFAs, I feel I am in excellent company. You seem like a terrific group of women. So, I have arrived and am officially here. Oh, and I'm not a doctor, the username is unrelated so sorry, no free medical advice (that you should take anyway).