I can put it this way.
I don't like all fat guys.
I don't like only fat guys.
I do like the way many fat guys look. My head does turn when I see a man that looks a certain way, including having chubby hands (one of my favorite body parts on a BHM for some reason) and a round gut. However, the looks are only the intial pull, the personality/common interests/chemistry/sense of humor have to seal the deal.
When you're with a BHM who likes being big, you can enjoy him more. You can express your appreciation over his tummy or love handles or back fat. If you're with a guy that doesn't like being heavy, you can't really do that both because he doesn't like it and because he'll never believe without exhaustive efforts on your part to convince him you do like it. There is a world of difference in the amount of fun you'll have with a man that embraces his size and a man that doesn't. I had an ex who didn't enjoy being heavy, which didn't allow me to fully enjoy his body the way I would have liked. I have had the privilege of being intimate with one or two BHM's who knew I was an FFA and let me go crazy over the entirity of their bodies. On the other hand, I made sure they knew it was them as MEN, not just "big men" that I was interested in.
I don't like all fat guys.
I don't like only fat guys.
I do like the way many fat guys look. My head does turn when I see a man that looks a certain way, including having chubby hands (one of my favorite body parts on a BHM for some reason) and a round gut. However, the looks are only the intial pull, the personality/common interests/chemistry/sense of humor have to seal the deal.
When you're with a BHM who likes being big, you can enjoy him more. You can express your appreciation over his tummy or love handles or back fat. If you're with a guy that doesn't like being heavy, you can't really do that both because he doesn't like it and because he'll never believe without exhaustive efforts on your part to convince him you do like it. There is a world of difference in the amount of fun you'll have with a man that embraces his size and a man that doesn't. I had an ex who didn't enjoy being heavy, which didn't allow me to fully enjoy his body the way I would have liked. I have had the privilege of being intimate with one or two BHM's who knew I was an FFA and let me go crazy over the entirity of their bodies. On the other hand, I made sure they knew it was them as MEN, not just "big men" that I was interested in.