A very fair point. Like I said in my first post in this thread though, I never formed the mental connection that most people do between body size and activity level and have dated almost nothing but active big women. This is why I really like Dimensions when people are being civil, I can get the answers and insight into a lot of questions that I wouldnt have ever dreamed of asking someone IRL.I will agree that sometimes doing an activity together, particularly a physical one (even something as simple as going for a walk) can open up conversation in different ways with a partner, and bring some really positive vibes. That's something I really appreciate, actually.
HOWEVER...if someone isn't able to participate in certain physical activities like that (because of weight or any other number of things), I think there are other kinds of activities that can probably function in much the same way - doing something artistic together, going for a drive, playing music, etc.