Erotic Fetishes

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  1. Apr 9, 2019 #1

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    What is everyone's?? Mine is female fantasy expansion, like growing really fat suddenly from ingestion from something magic, or even from sex. Guess I'm weird haha. This is a no holds bar type question. ( However do not include the really taboo ones if that is what you fancy. Please and thank you) ^_^
     
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    I see no one is beating down the door to be the first to answer this.:(
     
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    I can answer, but my ones are all boring, fat related ones that absolutely nobody would be surprised to hear, hah.
     
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    I just realized...

    That's not really a fetish Austin. More like a fantasy.

    A fetish is defined as a form of sexual desire in which gratification is linked to an abnormal degree to a particular object, item of clothing, part of the body, etc. Meaning, you need it to "get off" so to speak. I'm thinking you probably haven't made anyone grow really fat from a magic elixir or from sex lately (but I could be wrong here). This sound more like a fantasy you enjoy thinking about.

    If I had a fetish (which I don't), the closest thing it would be is really nice hands. I love a gal with really nice, soft, clean, well manicured hands. Hands like that will be (hopefully) touching my body and various body parts ;).
     
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    I did say Fantasy fetish lol

    But if we're talking realism, I like to see a woman's body jiggle to and fro, I like when a woman mashes me into their breasts, belly or Vagina , grinding my face with their vagina or ass because I am their BDSM slave.

    So yeah, those are my realistic fetishes :)
     
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    Alrighty then. Our man Austin has laid it all out there for ya!
    (I'm thinking you're going to get more than a few PMs now, fella)
     
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    Haha, I doubt that kind sir!
     
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    Trust me, you will. There are plenty of people who fantasize about being a Dominant. And you seeking to be the submissive in a BDSM situation will spark a couple ladies' interest, I'm sure.
     
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    I have a foot fetish but I have to say its not nearly as strong as it used to be, not even close. My other is probably like a lot around here, big asses. My wife has gorgeous feet and a nice big ass, yes I am deeply in love....lust....love, oh its all mixed together.
     
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    I have a shocking confession...I like fat guys...I know, it’s hard to believe...hope you can all think of me the same way after this earth shattering revelation.
     
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    Hahaha, no way, Shh!

    I really like stuckage, or when an object gets broken or crushed beneath a fat person. I like tight clothes and button popping/clothes ripping as lot as well. I'm also a fan of moobs, big butts and fat thighs. Especially if the thighs have cellulite.
     
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    I say this because, apparently I'm a "fake profile" lmao. Its not just on here, I had Plumper Pass pornstars question if this is me too on Twitter. I mean, is it that hard to believe that there is one of the lean men out there who find you attractive and who finds Bbw and Ssbbw irresistible??
     
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    Don’t know. I’m pretty athletic/lean and I’ve never had my profile questioned. I’ve had a few question my my sincerity but you can’t convince ‘em all!
     
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    And that, my friend, we can agree on lol
     
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    Error on my part.
     
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    I have two big fantasy fetishes.

    In one of them, I fantasize about being force fed totally against my will. I'm screaming, "No! Pleas stop! I don't want to be a fat!" But secretly I do want to be turned into a fat man.

    In the second of them, I get blown up like a balloon. This second fantasy excites me so much that a hiss of air out of a pump or a car tire gets me visibly aroused.

    I want to be the guy lying on his back in both o these two photos:


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    Hmm, you like hands but you're not a hand fetish, if your GF was nude and wore gloves would you be less turned on than if she was completely covered except for her hands? Prince Nomi with Candy "The Hand Fetish" Sherman would tour with Lothar & the Hand People but so few people had hand fetishes that they discontinued that part of the show. Later Candy tried to open "Hand Land" in the proposed sexual theme park "Sex Carnival" but her lack of following doomed Candy's project yet another time. So I guess you're not going to be one of Candy's Hand People along with Prince Nomi & Lothar. Prince Nomi finally got "The Fifth Harmony" to do his favorite song "A Thousand Hands" they start to sing at :25 of that video
     
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    As we're talking about fetishes on this thread, I'd like to ask a question in the hope that someone might be able to give me an answer.

    Many of us on this group find fat people attractive. For some of us, only fat people are attractive. I only feel attracted to fat men. Many people have told me that this is a fetish. My question is this. If all people, who only have fat partners, are fetishists, why aren't all of the people, who only have thin partners, also fetishists?
     
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    A fetish is where you have sex about an object - so with a hair fetish, shoe fetish, fat fetish or nylon fetish you're having sex about the hair, shoes, fat or nylons. Having sex with thin girls ummm, what is the object you're having sex about, thinness is a lack of objects rather than an object. I think that would be a preference rather than a fetish.
     
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    In my youth I was led to believe that only sexual arousal by an inanimate object such as a shoe was a fetish. Things were changed when doctors noticed that there were similarities between such fetishes and preoccupations with particular body parts and started to include these with fetishes under the previous definition. I'm just intrigued as to where the dividing line between fetishes and non-fetish activity should be placed. I'm excluding fetishes, which have to be diagnosed as pathological fetishes, because they cause so much distress or impaired functioning. Most fetishes seem to be quite healthy.

    One of the things that puzzles me is that partialism or preoccupation with a particular body part seems to be an illusive concept in itself. The body part can be body fat but I'm never tempted to take a pound of lard out of the fridge to use for an erotic thrill. Has anyone else here tried that? I certainly find men with big bellies to be very attractive. However, I frequent sites for fat and big-bellied men. Many of the photos are of just big bellies with no face or legs. I seem not to like big bellies but rather men with big bellies. If I like the whole man, then that seems to contradict the notion of partialism (in my case at least) and, therefore, its inclusion under fetishism. I certainly like fat guys and I realize that that is not what the majority seem to like. So, is attraction to fat people a fetish, because we appear to be in the minority. I can happily accept that but its not how other people define fetishes.

    To get back to my original question about why is a consistent preference for thin people not also a fetish. Are there not people, who get turned on by bones? Do people who only go with the occasional fat man get classified as "normal", whereas guys like me, who only date fat guys get labelled fetishists. Being gay doesn't seem to make me a fetishist but liking fat guys does?

    I'm just perplexed over this. I think that I'll just invent my own word to describe me. When someone tells me that I'm a fetishist, I'll reply, "No, I'm not; I'm a fattishist."
     
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