FA, Fetishes and Judgement

A few of John’s former friends commented on my weight gain.How I “got porky” or “ballooned up”well,yes I did!We both love it and as I said,former friends.

 

Same for me. I cannot hide the 400 lbs of my wife. Besides, I love it when people realize that I prefer fat women.

 

Exactly! There's no reason to hide what you like or prefer! Put it out there for everyone to see and be proud of it! I am very open with my preferences and have been for years. I don't mind at all to let someone know that I prefer a fat partner or that I love being a fatty myself and that my BF loves my fatness Life is short, love yourself and your likes! And don't hide it! You just might influence someone else to do the same like I was all those years ago.

 

It's simply a preference NOT a fetish!

 

Liking a fat partner, definitely a preference. It's when you get into specifics like hands, feet, weight gain, certain things that get to you. Those are fetishes. I have fetishes too, lots of them, but I prefer a fat partner as a preference.

 

1,000,000% Agree with you!!!

 

A very blessed couple!!!

 

Exactly:
Life is short, love yourself and your likes! And don't hide it! You just might influence someone else to do the same like I was all those years ago.

We should be more busy to show are love for the fat people!
Maybe that could be the topic of another thread for those who are confident enough to show their face:
"Show your love for fat people"

 

Yes! I totally agree. We have to play the hand that we've been dealt. So, we mustn't let other people's disapproval stop us from living with our reality. If other people don't want to accept the reality that there are fat people and people who love fat people, that's their problem not ours. It's very much part of my set of values to lead the way. I think that we need to be open about our preferences, so that others can see that there is a way forward for them too. Apart from being open about our love of fat people, we should be open about our self-respect, too. We are the people, who show fat people that it is possible to be fat and happy and loved.

 

Nice idea for a slogan!!!

 

Same here! It’s just about my favorite topic these days! I am sort of on the lookout for opportunities to share this with others. It’s been such a huge part of my life and identity and it feels really, well, authentic, to be open and honest about it.

 

Who would want to hide a wonderful 400 pound partner anyway?

It is interesting to note the difference between say when I was in my early 20s when a date of mine may have been 250 pound or less - people seemed curious (ie: is he into big girls or is there just something special about this girl?). When you walk in with a partner in that 400 pound range, all doubt to your preferences is erased!

 

Someone recently asked me, "Are you a chubby-chaser or something?"
I replied, "No, I'm a megalomaniac."

 

Very funny!!!

 

I'm not afraid to tell here and outside here that This is my goal of love: SSBBW + SSBHM!!!

Obesos-felices by Colonial Warrior posted Sep 17, 2019 at 8:37 PM

 

I agree with all the posts above. I would like to add that I agree that liking heavier women my whole life (which has increased in lbs. exponentially by the way over the years) is a attraction similar to what several have said is like blonde vs. brunette or vise versa or someone who only like really skinny women with big fake boobs “yuck”. But I have to say I kind of consider my liking weight gain and My wives Fat the way I do a fetish of sorts because even though people know I like bigger or thicker women (even my wife) people still do t know how aroused I get by seeing my wife get fatter nor does she really k ow the way I obsess with it or how Fat I dream of her getting. If I were to tell her that I would love to see her at 350-400 lbs. on her 5’ 3” frame she would definitely look at me a little differently and with a bit of disgust. So even though I am pretty open about liking weight gain on her I still feel that I suppress on the upper ends of what I really like with regard to Fat and weight gain on her or whomever.....and I think the majority who have this liking (or) fetish. An admit the same that they definitely hold a lot of the things that arouse them back quote a bit. Also, why wouldn’t we ....I believe that it is a very small percentage of people that are out in the open about this but I also believe there are a ton of people mid range meaning that if all of a sudden it was fashionable to be Fat and gain weight eventually those in the mid range would be into it.....because they are shaped by so cutlery much
Ore than any of us that are much more true to ourselves with this liking and or fetish.

 

I couldn't agree with you more! Though I am new here, I really enjoy being in a forum that accepts my size!!!

 

I am absolutely loving what I am reading! I wish I had found this community sooner. I definitely work in an industry that is surrounded by "fat" judgement and it is sad. I appreciate my curves and I know there are a lot of people out there who do too!

 

SO WELL SAID!!!!!

 

Love this! So poetic. Thank you for supporting!!!