FA, Fetishes and Judgement

A few of John’s former friends commented on my weight gain.How I “got porky” or “ballooned up”well,yes I did!We both love it and as I said,former friends.

 

Same for me. I cannot hide the 400 lbs of my wife. Besides, I love it when people realize that I prefer fat women.

 

Exactly! There's no reason to hide what you like or prefer! Put it out there for everyone to see and be proud of it! I am very open with my preferences and have been for years. I don't mind at all to let someone know that I prefer a fat partner or that I love being a fatty myself and that my BF loves my fatness Life is short, love yourself and your likes! And don't hide it! You just might influence someone else to do the same like I was all those years ago.

 

It's simply a preference NOT a fetish!

 

Liking a fat partner, definitely a preference. It's when you get into specifics like hands, feet, weight gain, certain things that get to you. Those are fetishes. I have fetishes too, lots of them, but I prefer a fat partner as a preference.

 

1,000,000% Agree with you!!!

 

A very blessed couple!!!

 

Exactly:
Life is short, love yourself and your likes! And don't hide it! You just might influence someone else to do the same like I was all those years ago.

We should be more busy to show are love for the fat people!
Maybe that could be the topic of another thread for those who are confident enough to show their face:
"Show your love for fat people"

 

Yes! I totally agree. We have to play the hand that we've been dealt. So, we mustn't let other people's disapproval stop us from living with our reality. If other people don't want to accept the reality that there are fat people and people who love fat people, that's their problem not ours. It's very much part of my set of values to lead the way. I think that we need to be open about our preferences, so that others can see that there is a way forward for them too. Apart from being open about our love of fat people, we should be open about our self-respect, too. We are the people, who show fat people that it is possible to be fat and happy and loved.

 

Nice idea for a slogan!!!

 

Same here! It’s just about my favorite topic these days! I am sort of on the lookout for opportunities to share this with others. It’s been such a huge part of my life and identity and it feels really, well, authentic, to be open and honest about it.

 

Who would want to hide a wonderful 400 pound partner anyway?

It is interesting to note the difference between say when I was in my early 20s when a date of mine may have been 250 pound or less - people seemed curious (ie: is he into big girls or is there just something special about this girl?). When you walk in with a partner in that 400 pound range, all doubt to your preferences is erased!

 

Someone recently asked me, "Are you a chubby-chaser or something?"
I replied, "No, I'm a megalomaniac."

 

Very funny!!!

 

I'm not afraid to tell here and outside here that This is my goal of love: SSBBW + SSBHM!!!

Obesos-felices by Colonial Warrior posted Sep 17, 2019 at 8:37 PM