I don't like to call my attraction to fat men a fetish. I encounter people, who insist that it is a fetish, because I'm not attracted to slim guys. I have a question about this. If being attracted exclusively to fat people is a fetish, why is an exclusive attraction to slim people not a fetish? The fact that fat admirers seem to be in the minority, does not change the quality of their love in any way and does not invalidate it. Love is love and in a world, where so many terrible things happen, we should cherish it, wherever we find it.