Are you intelligent?
- May 22, 2017
- St Louis Area
I get where you are coming from. However, isn't that how it is for everyone? Most people have some difficulty in finding a person to truly share their feelings, likes, dislikes, ideas, emotions with in a genuine and unfettered way (this as opposed to just finding someone for sex). I've really taken to vetting any potential paramours before making the decision to "jump in with both feet" so to speak. That is perhaps why I'm still alone after these few months (but that's a tale for another day).It's not just a preference for all of us. Some of us are not conditioned to recognize beauty that isn't compatible with our emotions, so this is definitely not the same for everyone. Speaking personally, I've found that the largest challenge I face is finding someone with whom I can share my feelings (fat or thin, man or woman,) and not being treated like scum for having done so. All the positive thinking in the world won't make that problem go away.
Bottom line, I think Dims and other similar sites are great places to connect with like minded people and share without being judged too harshly.