Going to an event in NYC with a focus on burlesque, erotic poetry reading, that sort of thing. Any ideas of how a woman my age (49) should dress for such an event? I'm not thinking of anything elaborate, its just that I don't know what people my age wear out to club type things in NYC. I'm stepping out of my normal comfort range and don't want to stand out because of it. Just want to blend in with the crowd.