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sarahe543

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i was happy at 130 lb. ive just gained at least 4lb in 2 weeks, feels like more actually.
 

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Yeah, I'm about 135 right now and pretty content with that. Honestly, I like being the weight I am now, which is pretty much average. (Not really thin, not really big.) I find fat people beautiful, I'd just prefer to stick to the size I am now since it's what I'm used to.

I had gainer fantasies back in the day but now I'm pretty much exclusively an FFA (with feeder fantasies.)

I don't think there's anything wrong with being an FA but not wanting to gain weight yourself. It's all about being comfortable in our own skin, right?
 

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I've noticed that when I'm with a SO who is a feedee/BBW, I don't actually gain much or any weight. It's when I'm not in a relationship with a BBW that I tend to gain weight.

It's almost as if I get urges to gain to compensate for the lack of fat. It's hard to explain, and can be confusing at times! lol
 

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I've noticed that when I'm with a SO who is a feedee/BBW, I don't actually gain much or any weight. It's when I'm not in a relationship with a BBW that I tend to gain weight.

It's almost as if I get urges to gain to compensate for the lack of fat. It's hard to explain, and can be confusing at times! lol
Some feeders have deeply rooted/closeted feedee tendencies, so without someone to feed over a period of time..there's only 1 person left to fulfill those urges consciously or subconsciously.

Just my .02
 

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I gain on purpose on and off but never much past the clinical obesity mark. How do I break the barrier and just let go to have the body I crave now for me as I have for my bbw women?
 

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Some feeders have deeply rooted/closeted feedee tendencies, so without someone to feed over a period of time..there's only 1 person left to fulfill those urges consciously or subconsciously.

Just my .02
The interesting thing is that I don't really view myself as a feeder. I don't "get" anything out of feeding. It's purely the state of being fat. But yeah, there is definitely an intricate relationship between being with someone fat and being fat myself.
 

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I think that is very true for me. If my wife is losing weight, I want to gain. It happens once or twice a year when she diets. Fortunately, I did my best to marry a woman incapable of being thin, but still, sometimes I want more! She is still a significantly large woman, but I miss the last 30 lbs. At least I am not in complete denial!!
 

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I am a lifelong FA married to a beautiful BBW. For years I kept my weight down with regular exercise, but knee injuries made me more sedentary and helped me put on 40-50 lbs. in the past 6 or 7 years. Initially I hated getting fat but discovered that my wife actually prefers the bigger me. She enjoys fondling my expanding belly and turns herself on by slapping my ass cheeks to make them jiggle, which they never did before the extra poundage. I have always enjoyed seeing girls gain weight, but I never could have imagined how much my own gain would turn me on. There is a certain sensuality to two fat bodies slapping together and making waves of flesh.
 

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I gain on purpose on and off but never much past the clinical obesity mark. How do I break the barrier and just let go to have the body I crave now for me as I have for my bbw women?
Keep eating? Take a trip that involves food, and enjoy it?
 

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I am a lifelong FA married to a beautiful BBW. For years I kept my weight down with regular exercise, but knee injuries made me more sedentary and helped me put on 40-50 lbs. in the past 6 or 7 years. Initially I hated getting fat but discovered that my wife actually prefers the bigger me. She enjoys fondling my expanding belly and turns herself on by slapping my ass cheeks to make them jiggle, which they never did before the extra poundage. I have always enjoyed seeing girls gain weight, but I never could have imagined how much my own gain would turn me on. There is a certain sensuality to two fat bodies slapping together and making waves of flesh.
I wonder how fat they are today?

I love seeing other FA's grow fat. It's always a pleasant surprise.

I have yet to see any real fat loving guy not enjoy their own fat once it comes to them too.

You like fat, get fat. Any guy making a woman fat but not becoming fat himself isn't doing it for the fat. He's doing it for control.

Girls, you want to avoid controllers- choose the fat guy. He doesn't want to control you, he simply likes fat.
 

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I wonder how fat they are today?

I love seeing other FA's grow fat. It's always a pleasant surprise.

I have yet to see any real fat loving guy not enjoy their own fat once it comes to them too.

You like fat, get fat. Any guy making a woman fat but not becoming fat himself isn't doing it for the fat. He's doing it for control.

Girls, you want to avoid controllers- choose the fat guy. He doesn't want to control you, he simply likes fat.
Some pretty broad generalizations there, and I'm pretty sure that they are not always true.
 

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I wonder how fat they are today?

I love seeing other FA's grow fat. It's always a pleasant surprise.

I have yet to see any real fat loving guy not enjoy their own fat once it comes to them too.

You like fat, get fat. Any guy making a woman fat but not becoming fat himself isn't doing it for the fat. He's doing it for control.

Girls, you want to avoid controllers- choose the fat guy. He doesn't want to control you, he simply likes fat.
This can be ready many ways. Are you talking about loving fat, or loving a person who is fat?
I am very fit, and I like being fit. I only want BBWs, but I don't want to make them change. I would be down with a partner who was "letting herself go," or wanted to gain. If you need to change the person you are dating, you are dating the wrong person.
 

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I've noticed that when I'm with a SO who is a feedee/BBW, I don't actually gain much or any weight. It's when I'm not in a relationship with a BBW that I tend to gain weight.

It's almost as if I get urges to gain to compensate for the lack of fat. It's hard to explain, and can be confusing at times! lol

This last line explains me over the last several years. I know exactly what you mean... Although it is the lack of Fat that my wife was gaining or lack of Fat in our relationship that made me turn it on myself.

I probably would have never had such an urge to push myself to intentionally gain.....but she is a gorgeous Chunky woman....which I so very much want her to gain and get Fat. She gains... but it has been ever so slowly....even though I began the grocery shopping several years ago and buying all her favorite fattening ben n jerrys, chocolates, cookies, sweets etc. etc. That's when unintentionally I started my trend of indulging with her in deserts and ice cream after dinner every night and all of a sudden I realized I had gained a bunch of weight. I decided to intentionally gain and stuff myself so much to get my wife to notice, comment or tease me a bit for how big of a belly I developed. She never mentioned anything so I kept stuffing and stuffing until eventually I was eating 3-4 times as much each day and a lot more fattening stuff. My weight gain fascination was now centered on me. My appetite was huge and instead of my wife saying anything to me she kept making our dinners more fattening than ever and my plates bigger and bigger not to mention immediately brining me seconds and on occasion thirds even after I told her NO.....followed by massive bowls of fattening ice cream. So the roles became reversed even though she was gaining and getting heavier I was turning into her big Blimp....and she didn't seem to mind. During this time I was more turned on by How much I was gaining and How Big my Gut was becoming even more than her measly 5 Lbs. here, her 7 lbs. there.

I believe a Mutual Gaining relationship would be the most sexual, physical and mentally arousing & stimulating thing for me.
 

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Not everyone who wants to be a feeder or a feedee will automatically succeed. I have discovered that I am a mediocre feeder at best but a spectacular feedee. After failing to pack on any more than 20 pounds to a lover over the years, I discovered that I can gain weight easily and rapidly. That's how I went from a 240-pound feeder to a 415-pound feedee (and that's just my summer weight!).
 

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