This just in : I can't believe I typed and left "here".Nah. A few lovely people have helped me to re-vive it and keep it alive. Fuzzy is one of them!
As a general question, I sometimes here/read people say "I would be a feeder, but I don't have a feedee" or "I would be a feedee but I don't have a feeder" and I think that being a feedee or feeder isn't dependent on having a partner. I always say I don't lose my sexual orientation just because I'm single; I figure my status as a feedee is the same. Even if I don't have a feeder and/or I'm not in an active feedism relationship, I'm still a feedee because that's how I'm wired.
What do you think?