For Women Only: What Do You Wish Men Knew?

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  1. Jun 23, 2019 #241

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    • There is indeed never a time where I am interested in a dick pic. Just don't. I am not a visual creature in the way many men proclaim to be and it does NOT exite me.
    • Pictures are something I'll maybe consider when we're married. Not ever on other terms, and then still on my terms.
    • If I want sex, I will let him know. It's ok if he asks for it if we haven't had sex for a while , but asking me every few hours every day turns me off.
    • If I am not interested in sex right now, it does not mean I don't love him. It just means I am tired or physicially unwell. Men seem to have a really hard time understanding this
     
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    Oh, I so agree about the last item. We express love in so many different way, and the physical one is not always one of them.
    Another one: while I love a nice bra-and-panty set, stockings and other lingerie just makes me feel like a fake. I hate it. I freeze up and can't enjoy intimacy. Just let me be myself.
    And another one: when I say small penises are so much more user-friendly when giving head, I mean that as a compliment. Small does not equal inferior. My breasts are small, too, but they're pretty awesome :)
     
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    Dear God - yeees!
    Let's face it - primary sexual characteristics have a biological function - but they are not exactly an aesthetic or optical revelation. Same goes by the way for the current trend to vulva pics or paintings - may do great work, doesn't contribute anything for visual pleasure.
    Humanity has evolved since baboon times - act accordingly!
     
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    Hear hear! (And how elegantly put - this goes straight into my quote file.)

    I wonder how many guys are reading this? It may say "For women only" but it is followed by "wish men knew" after all.
     
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    I wish men understood I need my "me time" just as much as they need theirs. Often more times than not, they take it as something is wrong or that you're mad at them rather than you just need some alone time.
     
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    Please look at women as people and not potential personal spank banks. You find fat woman hot? Great! Don’t forget to find out what she’s into and wants and to let her know you value her as a whole.
     
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    Vibrators aren't a threat. To some of us it's the only way we can come, no matter the guy's equipment or technique. And no, oral doesn't help every woman either.
     
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    Just because I hang around and joke like "one of the guys" does not mean I am! I dont want to check out other women with you and you should still hold the damn door :/ Friends or more..im still a lady and you should treat me as such...
     
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    Most of us can't think of nothing. Our head is always on and often jumping from one thing to the next. Think of reading a Wikipedia article and clicking on every think you come across.
    That's just the way our brain works and we can do little about it. "Just relax" doesn't cut it. Instead, ask what you can do to help us focus or if there is something you can take off our shoulders so we don't have to worry about it anymore. Thanks :)
     
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    In a business situation, I am not, sweetie, hun, a gal, a girl, and my moods, decisions or disagreement with you have nothing to do with the moon or my sexual organs. Ohh yea and my eyes are up here.
     
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    Manscaping? Absolutely! It makes me want to spend time there ;)
     
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