My girlfriend and I are in a bit of a rough patch. She knows I’m a feeder and an FA, and initially was alright with it. But then, a few years into our relationship, she decided she wants to lose weight. Now I love my girlfriend and value her over a sexual kink any and every day, but it’s been hard to support her in her attempts at weight loss when I don’t want her to lose any weight. I feel guilty about it and I don’t want to. How can I support my girlfriend the best that I can without feeling guilty for wanting her not to lose weight?