Golden Showers

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  1. May 27, 2009 #1

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    Ok here goes... My Lover of 5 years has recently asked me to give him a golden shower. Have never doin or been asked to do this before. Am not dusgusted at the idea but not sure what to do. Will he think less of me afterwards or me of him??:confused::confused::confused::confused:
     
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  2. May 29, 2009 #2

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    Difficult one perhaps, I guess the best thing would be to discuss your concerns with your partner to gage how he feels and will feel afterwards. If he's asking you to do it, he should be comfortable with it, but he should also understand if you're not.

    I was asked about this once by a guy who was chatting me up, we weren't even dating. That kind of put me off the whole idea of seeing him at all and I told him that. I really don't get the golden shower thing, does nothing for me whatsoever. That's purely my opinion though.
     
  3. May 29, 2009 #3

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    Well, if you are comfortable enough to give it a try, it is only fair to ask him for suggestions and work around that. You could always check out porn, but remember that you don't have to go to that extreme. The shower or bathtub is a good place to start.

    I don't see why he would think less of you, since it is his idea after all and if anything, you have been with him for 5 years so I would assume you both have a healthy amount of respect for each other. ;)
     
  4. May 29, 2009 #4

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    This is up to you and your partner to decide.

    Me? I'm not into it. ~Shrugs~


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  5. May 30, 2009 #5

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    Not my thing but if you want to please your partner go for it.
     
  6. May 30, 2009 #6

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    Golden showers? Eh, piss on that.
     
  7. May 30, 2009 #7

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    Hoo boy! Urine for it now!

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  8. May 30, 2009 #8

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    my ex husband wanted me to try this one time--- i couldn't , literally physically couldn't, get myself to do it--- i think it's just psychologically embedded in my mind not to ---
     
  9. May 30, 2009 #9

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    If the purpose is to be like foreplay or to get you both in the mood, then oyu have to ask yourself if it would enhance sex or make you want to take a shower? I've been on both ends and it can be exciting, but I don't want to roll around making love covered in urine. Not exciting to me, tho the act alone was stimulating for me and my partner as an ending act of kinkiness.
    :p
     
  10. May 30, 2009 #10

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    I had the same experience years ago with a boyfriend. I tried, since it was important to him but I just couldn't do it! My body wouldn't let it happen.
     
  11. May 30, 2009 #11

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    Don't let anyone piss on you...should be a general rule of life.
     
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    Yeah, when you think about it, there are so many, many other areas of eroticism that can be explored between 2 (or 3?) people.

    Having to resort to functions of elimination seems to be moving things away from erotic and sexual possibilities, and into the realm of domination/humiliation/degradation... and I don't find much eroticism there.

    On a more practical note, there are hygiene and health issues related to this topic. Methinks this is like a lot of fantasies: it might sound good in theory, or in being described, but the actual playing out of the fantasy is probably unappetizing and a real turn-off.

    As an example of cultural standards of acceptance; Flickr.com apparently routinely removes and bans any and all photos having anything to do with this 'sport,' and advises members that such photos are prohibited.
     
  13. May 30, 2009 #13

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    hahaha! i have totally been there as well. kinda glad it didn't/couldn't happen, i don't really want to be remembered as piss girl.
     
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    why did it take me so long to figure out what a golden shower is.
    hmmm....
     
  15. May 30, 2009 #15

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    If you're not squicked by the idea, but concerned that engaging in watersports will affect how he views you (or vice versa), I'd recommend talking to him about why he wants you to urinate on him. It will give you a lot more perspective on the situation.

    A lot of times, watersports go hand-in-hand with domination and submission, as a very dramatic form of humiliation/power-play. If you two have engaged in bdsm before, I would assume that he wants to explore those feelings further. If you haven't, but he wants to try watersports as a form of submitting to you, it might be a good idea to try some other form of play that's more "mainstream," but has the same power dynamic.

    Of course, I don't know anything about you, your boyfriend, or your relationship, I'm just making general assumptions. YMMV.

    /dr. ruth
     
  16. May 31, 2009 #16

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    I guess a golden shower is better than a Cleveland steamer.
     
  17. May 31, 2009 #17

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    The thing is though, this isn't about you. Obviously there is a large enough amount of people out there that DO find this erotic since it is a fairly well known fetish and there are plently of porn sites dedicated to it. Fetishes are highly personal.. what one person finds erotic may totally gross out another.

    It's not my thing but I'd probably do it if my boyfriend wanted me to try it once or twice. I'd have to see how that went before commiting to do it more than that. I say go for it. What's the worst that can happen?
     
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  18. May 31, 2009 #18

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    What about golden steamers?
     
  19. May 31, 2009 #19

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    I always find it mildly amusing that we are allowed to talk about "water sports", doing the Dirty Sanchez, and feeding someone to death until they spout feces, but when it comes to talk of anal sex or tongues in vaginas we get censored... How can I put this nicely... The powers that be here at Dimensions seem to have a "unique" sense of values. :rolleyes:


    Anyway... topic "water sports"...

    I wonder if a person can pee into someone's anus...? Just curious.





    Let's see if this gets censored...

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