She's in bed already, wearing nothing. The lights are out, it's 1 AM. You take your clothes off and climb into bed. You reach over to her and touch...something soft and jiggly. You don't know if she's facing you or turned away from you, because both her belly and her butt are equally large and jiggly, and both stick wayyyyy out on her front and back. Her upper arms are so big that they're like breasts, and you're not sure when you touch them exactly what you're touching, there in the dark. Such a turn on, knowing your woman is that big and fat and flabby and abundant, and that she's so big you can't immediately tell what's what! You don't tell her---you don't want to embarrass her---but my God, it turns you on. Once upon a time, you used to dream of sleeping with a very, very fat girl, one with rolls and folds and twice as wide as you, and here she is. Lucky you!