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Tina

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I enjoy it, too, sometimes, visually. Thing is, up close and personal, I also enjoy a bit of a belly on a man, too (makes a lovely little pillow), and the two seem for the most part to be mutually exclusive.
 

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TINA YOU LOOK TOO CUTE IN YOUR AVATAR!!!!!
Like a sweet, innocent angel.
 

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Ned Sonntag said:
(More more more) how do you like it, how do you like it
(More more more) how do you like it, how do you like it
(More more more) how do you like it, how do you like it
Thanks for the musical interlude, Ned... that is perhaps the best song sung by a 1970's porn star turned disco-diva ever!!! :)

This is an interesting topic, one that I have mulled over myself quite a bit. I too have found that over the years, my attraction has shifted from mainly plump/voluptuous ladies to the bbw and ssbbw. I think with me it has to do a lot with my own personal acceptance of my preferences and my sexual awareness.

Like so many others here I am sure, I once was under the deluded belief that I and I alone was the only one who ever thought of fat and weight gain as being sexy. Until I discovered sites like Dimensions around 5 or 6 years ago, I never even could have imagined opening up to anyone publicly about my innermost thoughts, feelings and desires regarding the full figured woman. Sure, anyone could have looked at the girls I was dating and said, "Gosh, he likes 'em big doesn't he?" But as far as being openly accepting and confortable with it myself, and even having a name for it (fat admiration) that is something I have only learned in my late twenties and early thirties.

And feederism... my goodness, I was having feeder-type fantasies long before I ever knew there was a name for it!

But yeah, since I have discovered this community and discovered my own desires, my attraction to merely plump women has indeed expanded and in fact shifted more towards the larger figures (or as Ella Bella so eloquently put it: fat girls! :D) Honestly, a woman I may have gone out with a few years ago might indeed be too skinny for me now. Or at least skinnier than what I am used to.

And no, of course this isn't anything to negate the thinner amongst us. We are blessed in this world to have so many beautiful women that come in all shapes and sizes! But I can't deny, my eyes definately wander towrds the bbw and ssbbw a lot more now than they used to.

As for the "super sized" debate: I would contend that it has a lot more to do with size than it does with weight. I mean, that's what "super sized" is, just a bigger size regardless of the actual poundage. I think FreeThinker's statement gives us something interesting to ponder:

FreeThinker said:
I think Super-Sized applies if a woman's height is not her largest measurement.
:D
 

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Spanky said:
That's the part I meant above. I think it is called the pelvic girdle or male girdle or something. Either way, love it as you like. As a male, I never understood. Is this the spot? Removed the gushy part based on your "NOT...erm...everything else" comment. Is that it??
OHhhh yeah. That is definitely it. And I don't agree with what another poster said about the two being mutually exclusive. Sometimes you just have to look a little harder for it - it's still just as sexy. :wubu:
 

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I love gently running my tongue in the crease.. men usually love it once they get past the ticklish part:p
 

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i just read through this whole thread and this blows my mind.

i'm 23 and have been a big girl my whole life (am currently of the ssbbw persuasion), and have had the internet for years and years, and i until i randomly came across here i never knew there was a whole community like this.

i've had boyfriends, and i've dated, but i never in a million years thought someone would PREFER a woman of my size and shape. i feel silly saying that, but i suppose now that i've thought about it, that i've just always bought into the myth that no one wants a woman that isn't the stereotypical perfect skinny girl. i've always been pretty damn confident and secure with myself, but after reading all this, i must admit, i feel even more confident than before.

so i guess the whole point of this ramble is to thank everyone for being you. you make the world a better place, and you've made this big girl smile after a pretty crappy day.

:D
 

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i just read through this whole thread and this blows my mind.

i'm 23 and have been a big girl my whole life (am currently of the ssbbw persuasion), and have had the internet for years and years, and i until i randomly came across here i never knew there was a whole community like this.

i've had boyfriends, and i've dated, but i never in a million years thought someone would PREFER a woman of my size and shape. i feel silly saying that, but i suppose now that i've thought about it, that i've just always bought into the myth that no one wants a woman that isn't the stereotypical perfect skinny girl. i've always been pretty damn confident and secure with myself, but after reading all this, i must admit, i feel even more confident than before.

so i guess the whole point of this ramble is to thank everyone for being you. you make the world a better place, and you've made this big girl smile after a pretty crappy day.

Glad you found your way here!
 

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