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Discussion in 'Fat Intimacy' started by NYCGabriel, Jun 16, 2010.
How did these women carry themselves? Did they dress and carry themselves with confidence? Men can smell a lack of confidence and self respect and be put off. Sometimes when a woman gains weight, her self confidence dwindles and she has a hard time attracting men with that attitude! If you are big, sexy, and proud, you won't have a hard time finding men!
Also, I believe women in general tend to be less sexually active than men, thin or not.
While I don't necessarily like this, or agree with its generalization (IE fat woman aren't gonna get any...) I can understand it. Outside of our community fat woman are not held in very high regard by most thanks to media and what society deems to be 'hot'. I always hated that, in mainstream society it seemed more acceptable for a bigger guy to be with a smaller woman, but almost taboo for a skinny guy to be with a big woman. I mean even based on things we see on TV (Shows like Yes Dear- with a BHM married to a petite woman) But notice you rarely really see shows or movies with BBW/SSBBW married to thin guys.
IDK...I guess maybe because I've experienced the almost stigma at having sex with a fat chick by non FA guys. Not all Big girls might experience this, but I have seen it.
it depends what they look like. if they look like shit of course nobody is gonna check for them.
Heyyou, I am pretty sure it isn't just me you rub up the wrong way. You might need to rethink the way you word some of your posts, because you are just plain offensive!
Someone Rep her I am out of Rep!
I totally agree with LFW, so I just now rep'd her!
hmmm I think it depends on what your looking for and if your willing to settle for the sleezebags honestly I mean If I posted I just wanted to get laid somewhere guys would be comming out of the woodwork and lets face it not the best quality men at that.
And it does come down to how we feel about ourselves, inner confidence in who you are shines through, could swear this article was already posted in the forum somewhere
cause of the 10,000 FRENCH People interviewed I mean, if it was a sample of americans or english or australians I think I would take it more seriously but fat and french people dont often go hand in hand (sorry Proner for my gross generalisation)
Experts interviewed nearly 10,000 French men and women aged 18 to 69 about their sexual experiences and analyzed the results based on their Body Mass Index. taken straight from said article
just my 2 cents worth hugs
It could have been with more tact, but essentially if a woman wears her hair nicely, has a wonderful style of dress, along with a nice face and good skin, I think she will maximize her chances of finding a man. If a woman is going to walk around sloppy looking thinking she is nothing, of course not too many men are going to check for her. Men tend to be more visual creatures than women, unfortunately. Not trying to brag, but I am not classified as slim according to the shitty BMI charts, but I constantly get asked for my number almost every day by men and get lots of stares. I never found myself to be undesirable like that stupid study indicates.
I hate these studies that target a specific group of people and tries to make an example of them whether the obese, hispanics, or blacks (which I see too many pessimistic studies of).
Rep'd her as well
Heavy or thin if a woman does not care about her looks than she is going to be treated like garbage.Two of my best friends are thin and when get all dolled up I look just as good as them...maybe even better!
gotta agree with you there, and i'm a dude
Good, and thanks. That %&#@*%***! Rep
system wouldn't let me.
I can believe it.
I See a lot of large beautiful women when I am out in public
But sadly, most of them, and by most I honestly mean 99%, act as though they are embarassed by themselves. They keep their heads low, make little eye contact unless it's to a cashier or someone near them, ect.
If you are going to act like you are shamful, then you will be treated as such.
Women tend to feel more pressured to be beautiful--by SOCIETIES standard.
When they don't meet those, they often feel inadequet, like they don't deserve to be seen in public. They also get nervous, think everyone is laughing at them, which again leads to not going out too much.
Men seem to, or so I've noticed, shown an [outward, anyhow] emotion of "..Whatever. I'm Me." and go about like their thin counterparts do.
***Now, Let me Remind you, this is purely based on my observations.
Well said -- there is an unfortunate standard, whether popularized in media or fashion magazines, where more pressure is placed on women to be an "ideal" size and weight. There's probably more ads out there for men in regards to penis enhancement and such, as opposed to having washboard abs. At least that's my observation watching the limited TV that I do.
....See, Men would react as women do now, if they had to go bottomless with their willies out.
...Thanks for that one, Willow.
-Goes to try to undo mental scarring-
So it's just fat woman who have to look there best 100% of the time in order to get the looks from guys? Because I have seen some very unfortunate looking thin women who are married or have men.
I guess that just proves the point that skinny woman can look tragic and still snag the mens and us fatties have to doll ourselves up just to get maybe a side glance from somebody.
^ Sadly True News :/
There are plenty of thin people not getting laid either.
Weight might slow things down at times......but I think having a vagina tends to make it easier to find sexy time with somebody somewhere........
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