Honestly... I don't find all BBW beautiful.

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Just like there are slim and slender people that aren't beautiful, so to are some BBW's. I just noticed that many BBW's seem to get offended if you don't find them attractive, and rush to assume that all I want is a 'skinny bitch'. NOT TRUE. I love BBW. The curves drive me crazy, but not all BBW's don't do it for me.
 

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Somw BBW are just...Big Women. I agree. :rolleyes:
 

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I find all BBW attractive, it's just that I don't find every fat woman attractive, know what I'm saying?

Just like with anyone, you can judge people on a case by case basis. For a lot of people, the term has been very helpful. I don't really know because I've never been a big woman, but I can imagine that fat is still a very sensitive and ugly word for many and if referring to oneself as a BBW is helpful in self acceptance, I am all for it.

I am pretty sure if you're going to refer to a big woman as a BBW and than tell her she isn't beautiful, well, that just wouldn't make any sense, what with the word being included in the acronym.

Although, I think a lot of people often forget what it means, because I see so many people with user names like BIGSEXYBBW.

As if that isn't redundant enough.
 

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Just like there are slim and slender people that aren't beautiful, so to are some BBW's. I just noticed that many BBW's seem to get offended if you don't find them attractive, and rush to assume that all I want is a 'skinny bitch'. NOT TRUE. I love BBW. The curves drive me crazy, but not all BBW's don't do it for me.

And you don't have to. Neither do I! Being an FA doesn't mean adoring everyone who is fat, it just means you have a preference.
 

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A fat woman and a bbw are not the same thing. And beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

If a woman thinks you want a "skinny bitch" cos you don't dig her, then those are her insecurity issues.
 

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Just like there are slim and slender people that aren't beautiful, so to are some BBW's. I just noticed that many BBW's seem to get offended if you don't find them attractive, and rush to assume that all I want is a 'skinny bitch'. NOT TRUE. I love BBW. The curves drive me crazy, but not all BBW's don't do it for me.

Isn't this a reply to a post in the thread you started the other day that was moved to the BHM board? Doesn't this belong there or are you convinced this is such a monumental observation it deserves its own thread? :rolleyes:

Regardless of one's particular physical appearance, we are all individuals with our own preferences. I mean like.. duh.
 

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what does this mean, B.ig B.eautiful W.omen. people are useing the word to openly, the same goes for thin people. so before you use bbw think about it... is this big women beautiful? or is she a BRW (big regular women) or BUW (big ugly women)?
 

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That is the spice of life.You don't have to find everyone beautiful or attractive.They have the same perogative.It's more than just the package for most people.
 

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To each his/her own. We like who we like and there's absolutely nothing wrong with that.

There are BBWs who make me pause and go "wow" to myself and there are BBWs I see as just a regular woman going about her life.


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what does this mean, B.ig B.eautiful W.omen. people are useing the word to openly, the same goes for thin people. so before you use bbw think about it... is this big women beautiful? or is she a BRW (big regular women) or BUW (big ugly women)?


And the masculine equivalent of a BUW would be a BUG (big, ugly guy).
 

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what does this mean, B.ig B.eautiful W.omen. people are useing the word to openly, the same goes for thin people. so before you use bbw think about it... is this big women beautiful? or is she a BRW (big regular women) or BUW (big ugly women)?

Can we cut the fatties that came before us a little slack here? They must be given some credit for coming up with a positive term that is now fairly well known in mainstream society to self identify that made THEM feel good in a time when all we were only known as fat or obese, chubbettes or fatties (which is now a term I can deal with). I don't think the term was meant to be used by others to judge whether or not a woman was worthy of the title. If it makes a woman's self esteem a little higher to think of herself this way, can we just leave it the hell alone?

BRW? BUW? Who are you or anyone to judge what is beautiful? What is the standard to which we must all comply?
 

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"hmmm I should make a thread were I tell everyone I think some fat women are ugly (because obvioulsy everyone cares what I think is attrachtive). Yes, that is a wonderful idea that won't offended anyone, that's the ticket"
 

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I think the username says it all.:D

Look I understand that guys do not want this, and guys do not want that, but maybe it is best to just keep that to yourself.
 

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I realised that bbw had become a phrase just for fat woman back when someone said they had seen a 'bbw goat' and when I read on a dating site profile 'no BBW please'.
 

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what does this mean, B.ig B.eautiful W.omen. people are useing the word to openly, the same goes for thin people. so before you use bbw think about it... is this big women beautiful? or is she a BRW (big regular women) or BUW (big ugly women)?

Please don't start any more acronyms, I cant handle that
 

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Fun fact: "BBW" is actually a registered trademark, owned by our esteemed Webmaster. If he had a nickel for every time it's been used to google a porn or dating site, he'd be Warren Buffet. Scratch that - Buffet would be washing his car. I'd personally owe him about $8,000.
 

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I think some of you missed the point I was trying to make. It's amazing how some people over react and seem to be offended by anything and everything.
 
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