THIS QUESTION IS DIRECTED AT BBW/Fat Women ONLY, PLEASE.
Ladies, since Dimensions is already so full of talk of weight gain and feederism, I hesitate to bring this question before you.
But maybe it's something that BBWs need or want to talk about.
What I'm curious about:
Ladies, since Dimensions is already so full of talk of weight gain and feederism, I hesitate to bring this question before you.
But maybe it's something that BBWs need or want to talk about.
What I'm curious about:
Erotic feelings are what they are, and there's almost no accounting for what turns people on. OTOH, I know that one thing I've always wanted to experience in my own relationships is the shared assumption that there is nothing wrong with fat, per se--that fat itself is not a death sentence.
So it's disconcerting to me to see so many thinner people at Dimensions who prefer fat partners yet express not only a simple desire to stay thin, but frequently a strong fear of getting fat, or a very strong dislike of their own bodies when they are heavier.
It's these extreme reactions I'm concerned with here, not the typical person who's always been thin and feels naturally best at that size.
Since I subscribe to the Health at Every Size theory, I do believe it's possible to be healthy and active without having to be a "perfect" size. But what do you all make of thin people who are attracted to fat people BUT have a very pronounced preference against or fear of getting fat themselves?
So it's disconcerting to me to see so many thinner people at Dimensions who prefer fat partners yet express not only a simple desire to stay thin, but frequently a strong fear of getting fat, or a very strong dislike of their own bodies when they are heavier.
It's these extreme reactions I'm concerned with here, not the typical person who's always been thin and feels naturally best at that size.
Since I subscribe to the Health at Every Size theory, I do believe it's possible to be healthy and active without having to be a "perfect" size. But what do you all make of thin people who are attracted to fat people BUT have a very pronounced preference against or fear of getting fat themselves?
