I find it rather distressing that my friendly self gets abused on this wonderful forum. I used to think that when fat gals insisted we look on the inside to see the beauty that it would be there. If this forum is representative of what fat women are like then I detect very little internal beauty. Instead I find nastiness, bitterness, loneliness and hostility. Many residue residents are sad because they wonder why they won't be getting a Valentine this year. Is it any wonder? If you are a really nice, caring person guys will be lining up to be with you. There is no need to come online and hope someone notices you. If you are a good person then you will treat those you disapprove of as Christ advises. To do otherwise is to reveal more about yourself that you ever thought possible. I know it is easy to react to some inflammatory people but retain love in your heart and you will flame no one. At the moment this site is a good place for masochists to assemble. I am beginning to wonder if most fat women have a sense of humour!