How fat do you like 'em?

Discussion in 'Weight Board' started by RedXII, Jan 20, 2012.

  1. May 12, 2019 #401

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    Since I came out to myself only recently, I didn't have my first encounter with a BHM until a few weeks ago. 5'6" and 290 lbs. at a pretty equal weight distribution. (Me, I'm 6'1" at 153 lbs.)
    I'm totally into him as a person, somthing I can't do without when I'm intimate with a man, so that counts for a lot, but I found short BHMs might be exactly my thing.
     
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    lol, I started reading one of the posts above, by Bouncing Boy, and laughed... I like em actual size... lol

    That's a good start really, actual, real women come in all sizes. I think all people can be attractive if they are kind, caring, and try to be nice to others.

    OK, that sounded mamby pamby, yeah, I like solid, strong, round, full figured, or simply big gals probably most of all. I can't help it's what my eye is caught by first, but there are also lots of simply pretty, sweet, and caring ladies that deserve attention and love too. Ooops, there I go being mamby pamby again!
     
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    I think contrasts like this are fun and good to see.

    I'm sort of competitive so who is bigger, can eat more, might be more of my thing.
     
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    As big as she's comfortable being. Just so long as she's got some meat on her bones. Other than that, there's no size limit.
     
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    My wife is trying to lose weight and has steadily slimmed down from her peak weight last year. She was putting on her pants the other day and pointed out to me that the thighs and butt were as tight as ever but the waist was loosening up. This is one thing I LOVE about when she loses weight: she loses it in her waist and belly faster than her ass, making her ass bigger, relatively speaking.

    Love it.:cool:
     
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    If i can tweak the question a bit, if i could wave a magic wand id have wifey be a good 400 pounds. Thatd be about perfect :D
     
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    Does she know this? If so how does she feel about it?
     
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    She does but her stance right now is 'not trying to gain, but if it happens it happens' but honestly neither of us *really* want her that big. We're only getting older and want to improve (and eventually maintain) her mobility and flexibility

    Still though, a guy can dream
     
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    I’m always curious because it’s always potentially shaky ground when a guy wants his partner to change something about her body. Usually this dynamic presents in the form of guys wishing their wives would lose weight but in theory it can be just as hurtful if he wants her to gain weight. Either way he’s saying he wishes she was something different than she actually is. But it sounds like you and your wife have discussed it reasonably enough it’s not a problem for you. That’s good.
     
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    I like them very curvy and at least 260 pounds.
    If I may fantasize a bit though my Dream woman would be about 40 years old,
    long thick black hair 5'7 dark eyes big on top but wider in the hips. Heavy upper arms
    elbow dimples and chubby hands. About 285 pounds before dinner. A Dark Haired Lovely
    who enjoys eating and won't pass on the desert menu. Aah, Bliss.
     
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    my dream woman is a huge apple shaped native american woman with a small butt and small legs, about 20-21, shorter than me about 4 feet tall.
     
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    My wife is about 400 and 5'6 :)
     
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    Depends on the woman. Some women wear their weight better then others.. and how you carry yourself. I’m strictly attracted to plus size. It’s all about confidence to me.
     
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    No size limit as long as they are happy with themselves
     
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    I guess it somewhat depends on her height and where she carries her weight, but I guess it could be anywhere from roughly 200 to well, the sky is the limit. Ultimately, it comes down to whatever she feels most comfortable with, as well as health factors. There are health concerns with being at an upper extreme weight, but I cannot deny I have an attraction to very large women of that size as well. But for me, it's always health first and whatever she feels is best for herself. Attractions are one thing, but health and happiness are another. It's a bit of a sliding scale so to speak, but I have a very wide range of weights I find attractive, so it's all good. :)
     
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    Bottom-heavy and super-sized.
     
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    Hi .. Do you ever come online?
     

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