Littleghost said:There's also a possibility few have considered; the approach. I'd say I'm an 'out and out' FA, but I'm also shy. If I'm interested in some one I'll try to get to know them, but the last thing I'd do, is bluntly go up and hit on them. I never thought that worked well or made anyone comfortable. Think of it this way, wouldn't you be a bit freaked out if a guy (politely) came up and said he was an FA? Kinda makes things awkward. Plus, this is supposedly the modern age, girls can help too. You never know, just giving a guy a small opening might be all he needs.
Needs training wheels for his tongue,
Yeah I agree with ya, I too can be shy sometimes when I see an intrest, but when i finaly work up the nerve, I usialy just try to talk to the girl at first, then if she seems intrested, take it a step further. That usialy what works for me.