ive been into fat men my ENTIRE life. I mean, ever since I had a sex drive I found myself much more attracted to overweight and even obese men. Myself? I’m tiny. 5’4” and 110 lbs and couldn’t gain weight if I tried. I’ve told exactly 3 people i prefer fat dudes. An ex (who was fat), my best friend, and an online close friend. My current boyfriend is totally average sized (5’11” and 180). I absolutely adore him, but feel unsatisfied sexually in some ways because he’s not fat. I don’t know how to come to terms with this. I wouldn’t and couldn’t ever break up with him all because he’s not overweight, but IF we ever break up, I think I’ll go after fat guys from then on... My preferences have caused me a lot of shame in the past. Why would a thin, “pretty” girl prefer fat men? I guess I’m realizing that they’re beautiful and individuals themselves and if I prefer it, so be it.