I'm like a guy

Discussion in 'BHM/FFA' started by Amandy, Feb 24, 2010.

  1. Feb 26, 2010 #41

    TallFatSue

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    I seem to be "like a guy" in this way. The farther I've advanced up the company ladder, the fewer women are around me. I'm one of the few women in management, and some of the other managers have said they consider me "one of the guys". I don't know whether to be insulted or just roll my eyes. I know my size is an advantage in certain situations (I'm tall too) because it helps me be assertive without being considered a "pushy broadie." Maybe that desexes me around the gold old boys? I do know I've heard more than enough "women jokes" for my lifetime (um, hello, woman sitting right here; so this is what it's like to be a fly on the wall, except I seem to be hidden in plain sight). Annoying! Well, whatever the reasons, I do enjoy my job, but to be safe I've told my husband to hit me with a log if I pick up too many "male" mannerisms, like talking about football or smoking a pipe. Meanwhile I'll just carry on and try to demonstrate that in many cases the best man for the job is a woman. ;)
    Gee, it's pretty comfy here after all. :eat2:
     
  2. Feb 27, 2010 #42

    Amandy

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    :eek: Well, there's always your charm to fall back on when all else fails...

    I wasn't really trying to justify anything. I'm not running around with a guilt cloud over my head for my tastes and desires; I'm relatively "out," so to speak. It was just a curiosity if more FFA women had these same feelings of feeling sexually different from our non-FFA peers, beyond just the fat part to more of the extremely horny part.

    I'm lucky to know a small group of FFA women quite well who have shared similar feelings with me over the last couple of years - but I've been so obsessed by these thoughts lately I felt like casting a wider net to a larger community of FFAs (and BHMs) who have shown some interesting thoughts and perspectives here.

    Thanks again to all :)
     
  3. Feb 27, 2010 #43

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    I like your avatar. The red lighting on those smooth rolls of flab puts me in mind of lava flowing slowly down the side of a volcano. :-D
     
  4. Feb 28, 2010 #44

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    I don't trust most people to be honest about their sex drive in public.

    Plus, you'd have to take demographics into consideration. I don't think a 70 year old who's been married half her life would have the same results as a single 20-something.
     
  5. Mar 7, 2010 #45

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    Uh, have I told you lately that I love you? :wubu:

    Unfortunatly it hasn't. Im a ho bag fo lyfe. :)
     
  6. Mar 7, 2010 #46

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    I'll have to admit, my first reaction to seeing someone attractive is sex. Of course it is, why would I be wondering if he enjoys playing scrabble as a first thought?
    And for the study, I definitely think of sex more than 19 times :D It's more of a constant stream. (Raging hormones still?)

    Funny, that's what a boyfriend of mine blamed his weight gain on. "I have sex, I tired out, and that makes me hungry. Fat people must have a hellofalot of great sex." Maybe it's the same for women?
     
  7. Mar 7, 2010 #47

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    Uhhhhh No comment :blush: :happy:
     
  8. Mar 9, 2010 #48

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    Isn't it the Italians that have some sort of proverb that you can judge a man's sexual qualities by how healthy his appetite is at the table?

    Or am I just trying to justify my love of pasta and pesto??? :eat2:
     
  9. Mar 9, 2010 #49

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    Justify away. Im half Sicilian and make a meaaaaan eggplant parm :)

    I also enjoy sex.

    That is all.
     
  10. Mar 9, 2010 #50

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    Hehehe...Its good to know I'm not the only one who gauges the sexual abilites of a person via their appetite.:D:eat2:
     
  11. Mar 9, 2010 #51

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    The Italians actually have 2 versions of this proverb:

    The short one is
    "Amare como mangiare"
    = somebody loves like he eats

    the more elaborate one is

    "Un huomo non pùo pensare bene, amare bene se non ha mangiato bene"
    = A man cannot think well, love well if he has not eaten well

    Most of us girls will appreciate that good loving mostly has a lot to do with good thinking ;)

    And yes, from my experience ... a guy who knows good food, has a good appetite will mostly also know much better what is good in other sensual realms of life, too .... :)
     
  12. Mar 9, 2010 #52

    MasterShake

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    I WANT TO GO TO THERE. :eat2: ;)

    Hey, my dinner's up HERE!

    ...or would that be "down THERE!"??? :eat1:

    Moar Italian please!

    [​IMG]
     
  13. Jul 3, 2010 #53

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    I just have one question. Where in the hell have you ladies been all my life. My libido was never that strong but I have seen women that did things to me sometimes it ruins my whole day or week. So yes that's the way guys think. I'm more of a pleaser than taker but I think about making a woman remember me years later. Oh well. Where are you wonderful FFAs that will give me a chance at this
     
  14. Jul 9, 2010 #54

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    Yeah that's pretty much what we think about. The only reason we watch sports, drink, or have any hobby is to just be normal for a few hours. So turn on a football game, grab a drink, and fire up that belt sander cause you've officially become a dude in training! After 6 months probation you'll receive your penis. :)
     
  15. Jul 9, 2010 #55

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    What a fantastic expression! I actually had a LOL. :bow:
     
  16. Jul 10, 2010 #56

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    okay, can we please put this thread away now? I was buzzed and horny. I'm still horny, but trying to put any possible reference to sociocultural nature/nurture bullshit to bed - because if you haven't noticed lately, it prompts some really booooring and doucheposeur action around here.

    p.s. I like sports but a belt sander would break a nail, so thankfully my 'gina will remain intact
     
  17. Jul 10, 2010 #57

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    Hey how you doin'
     
  18. Jul 10, 2010 #58

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    I have heard this from a lot of FFAs... maybe women with extra sex drive are more inclined to the bigger men

    my libido is definitely higher than my "normal" friends

    why have i not heard this amazing phrase before? :D
     

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