You can't ever make fat a secret. LOL Unless you're only like 20# overweight and wear spanx. I'd be interested in that blog.Thank you, whatever you thought, because you've given me an idea. There are plenty of blogs about how to dress and groom well as a fat guy. They are all obsessed with making us look slimmer. I'm planning on doing a blog on how to dress to emphasize the fact that we're fat. I'm not keeping this secret, because a little competition would make us serve our audience better and because it would be nice for women to have a blog like that.