Lets talk about sex....

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  1. Oct 8, 2005 #1

    boogie

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    Any other 500+ SSBHM wanna talk about positions? :)

    i'm looking for ideas to be in control and get a little weight on my SO. at 550, I know I'm going to have to be creative... and she's a very small lady (which i absolutely adore, btw).

    so whatta ya think?
     
  2. Oct 8, 2005 #2

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    Can't help ya there, I'm no small lady :D
     
  3. Oct 9, 2005 #3

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    More like 300 and a teensy bit! However, I do have some practical experience in the matter at hand. What works best is the Modified Missionary. Wihtout horrifying any of the faint-hearted folk around the board, here are the details:
    Step One: Depending on the height of your bed, get a few pillows ready.
    Step two: place the pillows right on the edge of the bed.
    Step three: have your lady sit on the pile of pillows and then fall back onto the bed, in such a way that her tuchus is still right on the edge of the bed and elevated to a level comfortable to your anatomy. she will be inclined backwards a bit....comfortably, of course!
    Step four...she should now be at the perfect height for you to stand between her legs and practice the gentle arts of pranayama and Kaula yoga..ooops...got mixed up with the Tantric lessons! LOL
    The idea is to take the pressure of your entire body off her, but your belly can still cover her with a fairly sensuous abandon!
    Does that make any sense?
     
  4. Oct 9, 2005 #4

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    sounds like what i had in mind, but, i'm wondering if i can handle this :/

    i suppose we'll see ;)
     
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    ...that allows for experimentation and a no-pressure situation. It's the sort of experience where its' not at all about performance, but about exploring mutual pleasure and intimacy in a way that doesn't call for immediate success and that should be something you both talk about before attempting it. One thing that might help is talking through it and if it doesn't work, agreeing to try something else another time...communication is just the critical thing here and then it is a lot less pressured!
     
  6. Oct 9, 2005 #6

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    I think this goes for all rational and sane people. Sex isn't just about the ehem, bang factor. It's not all going to "fall into place" like a porno, lol. I think too many people have that expectation.

    My last partner was incredibly patient and understanding of my limitations, but they weren't really an issue because we found other things that were far better than what was considered "normal," and expanded on those, which made for a far greater experience because it wasn't based on what society thinks is a turn on or acceptable, it was based on what we both thought to be fun, consensual and down right hawt :)
     
  7. Oct 9, 2005 #7

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    My boyfriend and I are both very heavy and when we first got together we had lots of fun trying new things. Of course everything didn't work just as planned, but we would just laugh and move on to something else that felt good. I think the key is having a partner who you are extremely comfortable with and just not giving up. There are so many ways to pleasure one another. Penetration isn't everything, but the pillow thing has worked for us.

    Our favorite goes like this though.

    -Male lays on the bed with his knees bent and feet on the floor(this way he can hold his belly up a bit and make himself more accessible).

    -Female mounts male keeping one leg firmly on the ground and places the other leg over male. Penetration really is so much easier this way. She can either do this facing you or facing away from you.

    There really is so much more information about fat sex positions here at this link, right here on the Dimensions Magazine website.

    http://www.dimensionsmagazine.com/dimtext/positions/fat_sex.html

    I don't know if you've ever read it, but it is really helpful.

    Just have fun!:)
     
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    I still have fun with being folded in half missionary style, I find it comfortable. :D
     
  9. Oct 28, 2005 #9

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    I know this topic hasn't been commented on in a while, but... there's not a whole lot of activity on this board, so I hope that no one is angry with me for reviving an old thread. I've been reading all the messages since there haven't been many new ones since I began reading here.

    My recommendation for what you're trying to attempt, boogie... Do something where you can stand and brace yourself against a surface, so that you can control the placement of your weight. Have your partner get comfortable with her legs hanging off the edge of a bed (maybe find her something to rest them on so they don't dangle), so that you may stand and also hold yourself up by placing your arms on the bed. If you're both able to get comfortable like this, it should give you plenty of control.

    I hope that's helpful!
     

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