op user said:
Thank you for your answers. I am still looking for advices on how to do or what not to do!
How to do:
Try it! More specifically I'd reccomend you start with a fireman's carry. The way I'd do it you:
1. Have the willing subject stand with arms out and and feet slightly more
than shoulder with apart.
2. Pick a side.
3. If the side was right loop our right arm around her right thigh and with
your left hand grab her right arm. If the side was left all the sides are
reversed.
4. In one fluid motion you crouch and shift her weight to your shoulders.
5. Stand up straight.
This method puts a bit of strain on your abs, but it's fun.
Here're some links I got from the wikipedia that probably explain it better.
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http://www.tpub.com/corpsman/14295_files/image226.jpg
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http://www.nyjtimes.com/cover/11-11-05/FiremansCarry.jpg
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http://www.tpub.com/seabee/5-48.htm
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http://www.gunnysquarters.org/firemancarry.JPG
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http://patrickmcampbell.com/v-web/gallery/album08/CBJ_Buddy_Carry
You could also try the popular romantic, "sweeping her off her feet" method if you think you're up for it.
What not to do:
Don't hurt yourself. If your body tries to tell you with a little pain or some scary noises that you're not up to it, listen! You don't always have to take your body's advice, but most of the time it's got a decent idea of what you'll be comfortable with.
Don't hurt anyone else: If you can't get a good grip stop a minute and reconsider your strategy. Nothing strengthen's someone's resolve about feeling unliftable than being pinched or impropperly supported to the point where you have to abort 'cause it hurts too much.
he also said:
The question for the BBW/SSBBW. Why you are hesitant to be lifted / carried by your partner. Because he can't lift you (save the embarassement) or concerned about his back or a another reason.
Waiting for your comments
op user
I'm not a BBW by any stretch of the imagination, but I've noticed that most women have an incredibly inflated idea of what the numbers on the scale mean, eg: they believe their weight will bear down on you like the rear wheels of a fully loaded bakery truck even though the truck would probably be exerting 2,000+ lbs. of force and the woman perhaps a tenth of that. It's almost like they take a stuborn pride in being so dangerous... just an observation.
NancyGirl74 said:
Hmmm...two men carrying me. Now all I need is two more to fan me with those big palms.
I
will have a hand free, you know.
