Nothing else but fat will do?

Discussion in 'Fat sexuality' started by Unbasher, Oct 14, 2019.

  1. Nov 8, 2019 #41

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    Quite agree with both here!! And there's also a profound difference between someone just "accepting" and "living with" you as you are...and someone that is really into you on every level. Being able to share everything together is so important.
     
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    You really hit the nail on the head here, thank you. I can't count the number of times I was told I was wrong for having my own opinions, and that's the least of it.
     
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    And if those opinions and preferences happen to be different from the majority...it's automatically assumed you are wrong. Really increases the sense of isolation...I know the feeling well. Raised in a family setting where you are expected to act and think as those around you do. Its really something special when you can find someone who is wonderfully unique, and celebrate that together...instead of trying to fit the mould and preconceived notions of others.
     
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  4. Nov 12, 2019 at 1:10 PM #44

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    Pardon me, but to hell with anyone that thinks that I should not be able to live life on my on terms! I live life the way I want to. Other people live life the way they want to. That's the way it should be. No one should have power to dictate someone else's life. Whether you're wrong or right, it's your choice!
     
  5. Nov 13, 2019 at 1:24 AM #45

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    I agree with you in every detail but one. I don't even think that it's a choice. I think that it's the way we are. It's hardwired into us. I think that it's an even stronger reason to assert that no one should be allowed to dictate that we should change.
     
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  6. Nov 16, 2019 at 1:08 PM #46

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    The only choice is open or not.
     
  7. Nov 16, 2019 at 1:27 PM #47

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    You're exactly right! It is hardwired into us at some point. This is who we are. If the rest of the world doesn't want to accept it, then I guess we are the outsiders. I'm fine with that!
     
  8. Nov 16, 2019 at 2:07 PM #48

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    I'm happy to be an outsider too!!!That's the main reason my name is Colonial Warrior!
     
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  9. Nov 17, 2019 at 12:11 AM #49

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    I think that what you say here is true but I like to put it the other way around. They're the outsiders. They don't know how to find beauty, happiness and enjoyment in our world. I think that we truly find these things, or else we would look elsewhere. I know that I find slim people to be beautiful, even though they don't exert that magnetic attraction over me. So, I'm happy where I am, because for many of us there is more beauty here in our world than there is outside of it.
     
  10. Nov 17, 2019 at 12:18 AM #50

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    Perhaphs @AmyJo1976 (and I second her) was trying to say is that we are outsiders because we feel that way.
     
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    I think that every is an insider in some ways and an outsider in other ways.
     

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