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when i was younger the first word i used to look up in the dictionary (when i bought a new one) was 'fat' and i must admit to erm 'liking' it! :blush:
Thank god for the internet..thats all i can say!!;)
 

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I confess that I envy people who are good at succinct, interesting, confessions. It is a real talent!

(from which it is safe to assume that most things I’ve thought of to post here either take way too much explanation, or else end up sounding bland or weird when I keep them short).

I heartily support this thread, but I’ll have to work on what to actually add to it.
 

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Just post. We will be interested even if you do drone on blandly!! ;)
I'm sure nothing you write could ever be long winded or bland...:) i am curious now!!.
I'm sure there will always be someone weirder than you, if that is of any comfort.
 

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I'm sure nothing you write could ever be long winded or bland...:)

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Thanks for the laugh, that is the funniest thing I’ve read in a while! :D

But here goes with one that probably manages to be long winded and weird all at once: to me, hugging someone who is fully clothed is much more intimate than seeing them in their underwear (I’m rather touch oriented). This makes me shy about hugging fat people, because it seems far more intimate than should be allowed by good manners, given that I’m totally married. But I worry that fat folk might imagine that I’m grossed out by their bodies and uncomfortable touching them (and yes, around here, in some circles, there are a lot of ‘hug’ greetings).
 

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Thanks for the laugh, that is the funniest thing I’ve read in a while! :D

But here goes with one that probably manages to be long winded and weird all at once: to me, hugging someone who is fully clothed is much more intimate than seeing them in their underwear (I’m rather touch oriented). This makes me shy about hugging fat people, because it seems far more intimate than should be allowed by good manners, given that I’m totally married. But I worry that fat folk might imagine that I’m grossed out by their bodies and uncomfortable touching them (and yes, around here, in some circles, there are a lot of ‘hug’ greetings).
Oh.. i get that totally! I can understand what you are saying but for me clothes can be more sexy than naked as opposed to more intimate. I think especially if the clothes excentuate fat bits!!. I think when people are naked they can seem less fat somehow and maby somehow clothes are some sort of 'fat indicator'. In saying this i do love my lady's body, clothed or naked. I am equally turned on.. though i must admit i have a 'hot spot' for fat spillage and wee peeks of belly, back or cleavage and really appreciate the contours or a nice bra roll or four. :blush: erm.. Anyone else????? :confused::blush:
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But here goes with one that probably manages to be long winded and weird all at once: to me, hugging someone who is fully clothed is much more intimate than seeing them in their underwear (I’m rather touch oriented). This makes me shy about hugging fat people, because it seems far more intimate than should be allowed by good manners, given that I’m totally married. But I worry that fat folk might imagine that I’m grossed out by their bodies and uncomfortable touching them (and yes, around here, in some circles, there are a lot of ‘hug’ greetings).

I can relate too! I get overwhelmed when a fat woman (or man with impressive moobs) envelopes me with her softness and the contrast sometimes makes me all excited. I am glad I am not a guy, else I'll creep the girl out with my hard-on.

Oh.. i get that totally! I can understand what you are saying but for me clothes can be more sexy than naked as opposed to more intimate. I think especially if the clothes excentuate fat bits!!. I think when people are naked they can seem less fat somehow and maby somehow clothes are some sort of 'fat indicator'. In saying this i do love my lady's body, clothed or naked. I am equally turned on.. though i must admit i have a 'hot spot' for fat spillage and wee peeks of belly, back or cleavage and really appreciate the contours or a nice bra roll or four. :blush: erm.. Anyone else????? :confused::blush:
:happy:

I agree with the spillage and peeks! :O
 

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I can relate too! I get overwhelmed when a fat woman (or man with impressive moobs) envelopes me with her softness and the contrast sometimes makes me all excited. I am glad I am not a guy, else I'll creep the girl out with my hard-on.

Not picking on you in particular, Cors.....but just wanted to say: I think that in general women kind of exaggerate how much guys are like toasters (“you know it's ready when it pops up.”).

Guys can feel interested, even all tingly in nether regions, without an externally obvious physical reaction of that sort—honest! (OK maybe not so much at age fourteen….). Flushing of cheeks, more rapid breathing, eyes darting to and fro and being dilated, those are probably more reliable indicators :)
 

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Just post. We will be interested even if you do drone on blandly!! ;)
I'm sure nothing you write could ever be long winded or bland...:) i am curious now!!.
I'm sure there will always be someone weirder than you, if that is of any comfort.

Mergirl is right Ed, just post, you always have interesting things to say! Personally, I even enjoy your "droning"... ;)

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I agree with the spillage and peeks! :O

I third that Cors! There's nothing better than getting a peak at a nice soft belly or love handles when a fat person is reaching up for something.
 

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Thought of another one: IC that I adore seeing big folk doing physical tasks that are just a little challenging for them. I mean, I love seeing bodies in motion in general, but bigger bodies not only move more interestingly, it can allow a sort of way of seeing their weight, not just their size.
 

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IC that while I obviously don’t mind that one of my co-workers gained quite a bit of weight while she was pregnant, and probably re-gained the baby weight while on maternity leave, I wish* she’d buy some clothes that were more properly her size. A too tight shirt barely squeezed over one’s love handles is to an FA what a deep plunge top is to most guys, aka difficult to ignore, which is rough in a work setting. :doh:

* I realize that there are probably lots of legitimate reasons for her not to have bought new clothes, and I don't actually expect her to do so. I don't expect my wishes to all be answered!
 

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IC i love the fantasy of me shrinking while the BHM in my life grows.....
 
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IC that although I love fat girls, I dread putting on weight myself. Like, really dread it. I've gone from 160lbs to 173lbs in the past 5 months, and although that's not much considering I'm 6'1, I'm still not thrilled.
 

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Shhhhhhhheeeeeeeee LIKES big butts and she cannot lie!!! :D
 

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Here's a good one.

Whenever a client sends me photos of themselves as a means of me drawing their portrait, the vast majority of the time I have a burning desire to ask them to send me pics of their butts as well. If the client is flirtatious then I may work up the muster to ask, but thankfully I know it's beyond crass, tactless and unprofessional to do so.

So yeah, that opening line from "Baby Got Back" applies to my me BIG time.
 

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I confess that one of my favorite parts of being a waiter is up-selling desserts and whatnot to BBWs. I hope I'm not too obvious. >_>
 

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