Relation with BBW. Does the member's size help or hinder?

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    All the women I date have over 200 pounds. The BBWs have very large thighs, big legs, huge breasts and big buttocks. I realized that not every man can relate to BBWs. The man who is predisposed to dating a BBW must have attributes. I realized that the size of the penis makes all the difference. The BBWs have very large hips, in case the man has a small cock, the sex will be very difficult. The male member should also be thick. A thin member is very fragile. My best friend related to a BBW and was unsuccessful. He told me that his little cock was not compatible with the girl's huge ass. I ask for your opinion. The member size make a difference?
     
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    I don’t fully agree with your assessment. I’m muscular-lean, not exactly thin, but definitely not big. I’m about 161 pounds and I can handle being ridden hard by my wife, who was over 400 pounds at this time last year. She’s dropped to about 350 or so now.

    She has a pretty big rear end, one that would be the envy of all the guys here on Dims if she wanted it to be.

    I’m not the most well endowed guy, average at best. Wife does admit to being a size queen and in a meaningful heart to heart admitted I’m “underwhelming” to her. That was actually a break through because since then I’ve transformed the way I do things in bed. She has asked me to be a soft and gentle lover because I can be effective at it. I’m less effective when I try to be hard and rough with her because I just lack the size for her.

    Lean guy with a fat girl can be a very effective combination. It works well for me and my wife. If I were a big guy we’d probably have more challenges than we do. It’s challenging enough, but we are able to make things work.
     
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    The post is exclusively about penis size. A strong guy with a tiny penis can not satisfy a BBW
     
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    Ah. Well even specific to penis size not all BBWs are size queens. And for those of us who are average size and married to a size queen skill makes up for the lack of size.
     
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    How tiny is tiny? Just curious here.
     
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    I was in a relationship with a man who was 6 inches in length but he was very girthy. 6.5 inches around. The only postion we could not do was
    spooning as he was too short and my ass is way too big. We had no problems with other positions and we had a very satisfying sex life with each other.
     
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    While I'm not "porn star" sized, I am larger than average in both length and girth. That said, I agree with happily_married: skill can make up for lack of size. Positioning, flexibility, and comfort are a key ingredient to a satisfying sex life. Plus it never hurts to have frolicking fingers and a talented tongue and the willingness to use both. Just sayin'.:p
     
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    tiny=less than 6 inches
     
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    When my wife broke the news about her being a size queen she was very clear she felt I was quite gifted with my tongue. And she wasn’t talking about my verbal skills!

    OP, if under 6” is tiny then most men are tiny. Studies consistently conclude average size to be about 5-6” or so. That’s length I don’t really recall seeing any conclusions about girth.
     
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    My wife and I can’t do that either. We have tried many times but I’m not big enough and her ass and hips are just too big. We’ve even tried propping me up on pillows but they shift around and that doesn’t solve the size problem anyway. So it’s other positions for us!
     
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    I'd find a way to make it work! (were I in that same situation, I mean)
     
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    Apparently you like a challenge. LOL
     
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    Oh, yes I do! Especially when that challenge is to make a certain someone smile (or feel otherwise euphoric):p
     
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    And this whole thread seems to run on the assumption that every BBW might be hard to satisfy, which may not be the case. There are plenty of women (generally the more mature types) who know exactly what tickles their fancy and how to direct you to it. All you have to be is willing and able (BEK = check & check).;)
     

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