So what you're saying is that you find a person's personality important and what they look like isn't important.It's the person who turns me on, not their gender. I love my partner's body because it's theirs and I love giving them pleasure and exploring it. I find all different body types attractive, thin and fat for men and women.
Their personality, humour and intelligence are what's most important to me, looks come after that. Meaning, I won't put someone's appearance first or have that be the reason I want to be with them. When I fall for a person, I love their body, their looks. I may or may not find someone of a similar body shape or look attractive. I can find random people on the street attractive without being attracted to them, because I don't know them.So what you're saying is that you find a person's personality important and what they look like isn't important..
I wasn't offended, though I think we may have been misunderstanding each other. I have a thing for nice hands and shoulders (though "nice" is a quality that's hard to define, it's one of those "I know it when I see it" things), and I do like a good goatee on a man, but I don't really have any must haves that differ all that greatly between sexes.I didn't mean to offend because I'm sorry if I did. I get the impression that you were somehow.
By turn ons, I meant both personality and looks and if it differs for both sexes. Creating this topic was inspired by the fact that I find different traits (both personality and looks) attractive in each sex.