A little blunt, I know, but I have a few questions I was hoping I could get a hand with. I am in a relationship with a guy who is probably creeping up to the 400 lb mark. He is the first 'big guy' I have ever dated, so logistical question: what would be the best position for him? I honestly don't really have much experience with anything but the basic guy on top as I find girl on top a little uncomfortable.... We've been fooling around a bit and he always pulls me on top. Is there a way we can do this where we will both be comfortable? Thoughts, opinions, suggestions please!