Sexual deal breakers or What do you require sexually from a lover?

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  1. Mar 27, 2010 #561

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    LOL...Funny!
     
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    What I always prefer is trimmed finger nails with index finger in....and thumb doing the stroking.
     
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    DITTO all of this for me!~!
    I love the way that you described it!!
    Make it yummo :D
     
  4. Mar 27, 2010 #564

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    Sounds painful, and I am glad that has never happened to me!!!
    Ugh!
     
  5. Mar 27, 2010 #565

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    From the top back with her on her knees/belly, Index finger in, upward strokes with the thumb, middle finger down working the perineal area, and thigh planted behind the hand to help provide perineal pressure.
     
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    That might work, too ;) :p
     
  7. Mar 27, 2010 #567

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    I made the mistake of not paying attention to this a long time ago and found myself with a classical guitar player.

    Ouch.
     
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    Definitely a DEAL BREAKER :doh:
     
  9. Mar 27, 2010 #569

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    Just quickly popped into this thread but AMEN to the above!!!!:wubu:
     
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    Hahaha I call it "Fatal Error", the hand on the head is forbidden, who continue to do that this is real life not porn!
    And for the bite he totally deserve it and you know there are some lessons you only learn painfully :D
     
  11. Mar 28, 2010 #571

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    The hand on the head is forbidden only if he's being forceful about it. It's totally cool if he's playing with my hair or something while I go at it. That I don't mind.
     
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    Oh no, it wasn't me that felt any pain...just anger. He was the one in pain! *LOL*
     
  13. Mar 30, 2010 #573

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    Okay, my dealbreakers are:

    Hygienically challenged men. By that I mean, unwashed, smelly, unkempt. Also, he needs to keep his body hair trimmed. I'm not saying to go bald, but (to quote Samantha from Sex and the City) when I blow you, I don't want to feel like I'm flossing. ;)

    Long fingernails. Ick.

    Things I won't do: other girls or groups (sorry, just not into that), animals, watersports, or anything illegal. ;) Other than that, I'll pretty much try anything. If I don't like it, believe me, I will let you know in no uncertain terms.
     
  14. Dec 22, 2012 #574

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    Almost died from laughter

    Sorry for the bump, I just thought that was quote worthy.
     
  15. Dec 23, 2012 #575

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    I'm a really kinky person.

    As of now my hard-limits are:
    Shit
    Vomit
    and.....uhhhh....

    So yeah, basically, my deal-breaker is if someone is super-vanilla and can't deal with all the role-play, choking, bondage, cross-dressing or possible blood spillage that is about to go down. (Don't ask.) I've never had a threesome though it's something I might be willing to try in the future.

    Thankfully my boyfriend and I have the kind of relationship where we can be totally in the freak zone one moment and then cuddling and making love the next. Making love is still nice sometimes. You need to be able to do that. And of course I agree with those who have said that oral sex should be a given.

    P.S. You have to let me touch your tummy and fondle your moobs/boobs. I need to be with someone who will let me appreciate their body.

    Edit: I swear that having sex with me isn't as frightening as it sounds! xD
     
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    Why would it be frightening?

    To me, the thought of having sex with a really uptight, unadventurous, religious-guilt-ridden person is something truly frightening.
     
  17. Dec 24, 2012 #577

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    A 3rd party can be lots of fun (whether sex is involved or not). The energy with someone of like mind is pretty hot and group D/s-kinky moments are definitely ones worth exploring. :D
     
  18. Dec 26, 2012 #578

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    the first time I was at a room party that Louise also attended she told me that she could accept all parts of her body with the exception of her flabby upper arms. by the end of the room party she was completely convinced that at least on man found her flabby upper arms very sexy.

    last night when she visited me in the nursing home she pulled the curtains around the bed so I could again enjoy her excitingly flabby upper arms.

    she loves me so much, it is wonderful.
     

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