I'm very glad I took your advice!Time will tell BEK. See where it leads....
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Well, this weekend yielded some interesting results in this ongoing saga. I will start by emphasizing the need for couples, new partners, and everything in between to maintain open lines of communication. It is imperative that each person foster a culture of openness, honesty, and transparency. Otherwise, missteps can/will be made, and things can end before they really have a chance to blossom.
On Sunday, we agreed on walking in another park (I guess this is our thing now). I made us a light lunch of sandwiches and chips. The weather was unseasonably warm but still nice. I noticed after we left the car that Hannah’s hand kept grazing mine as we started our tour of the park. I guessed that she wanted to hold my hand. I didn’t want to assume this right off but in hindsight, I feel she enjoys this more than anyone I’ve ever been with. I haven’t yet asked but I think it’s because I make such a big deal about how lovely and soft her hands are.
As has become customary when we spend time alone, we kiss a great deal. It’s obvious that she likes my kisses and I hers. Kissing, I feel, is probably the most intimate act two people can engage in. It involves a complete “letting go” of your inhibitions (even if it’s just momentary) to open your mouth and accept another’s upon yours. Yes, sexual intercourse is very intimate, but the exchange that comes with kissing can get you lost in the moment.
Even though we do a great deal of kissing, it is not to make overt public displays of affection. We aren’t like, “Hey, people! Look at us!” It may just be in response to a question or answer or a look or a caress. I love that we are both in tune with this little activity and there was no prompting from either of us. The park we were in was somewhat busy with people, families, children. But there are so many different paths you can take, and the park is big enough that we found ourselves alone much of the time. I noticed that she likes to squeeze, caress, and pat my bottom and awful lot!
As afternoon turned to evening, we finally packed up and headed home. Once we got to Hannah’s place (that she shares with a roommate), I parked the car and we got out to talk some more and kiss goodnight. I think Hannah enjoys that she’s been able to share very intimate and intense details of her life, without me getting spooked or becoming judgmental or treating her differently. As I got in my car and started to back out of the parking spot, she came over and leaned in my window and said, “So, when are you planning on coming to bed with me?”
Now, the animal in me (and there is an animal in all of us) wanted to jump out of the car while it was running and take her in the bushes right then and there! But the gentleman in me had to remain calm, cool, and collected. I said, “Whenever you invite me.” She stared at me for a minute as I smiled at her. Then she gave me a peck on the cheek and whispered in my ear, “Stay tuned.” I am definitely staying tuned!
On Sunday, we agreed on walking in another park (I guess this is our thing now). I made us a light lunch of sandwiches and chips. The weather was unseasonably warm but still nice. I noticed after we left the car that Hannah’s hand kept grazing mine as we started our tour of the park. I guessed that she wanted to hold my hand. I didn’t want to assume this right off but in hindsight, I feel she enjoys this more than anyone I’ve ever been with. I haven’t yet asked but I think it’s because I make such a big deal about how lovely and soft her hands are.
As has become customary when we spend time alone, we kiss a great deal. It’s obvious that she likes my kisses and I hers. Kissing, I feel, is probably the most intimate act two people can engage in. It involves a complete “letting go” of your inhibitions (even if it’s just momentary) to open your mouth and accept another’s upon yours. Yes, sexual intercourse is very intimate, but the exchange that comes with kissing can get you lost in the moment.
Even though we do a great deal of kissing, it is not to make overt public displays of affection. We aren’t like, “Hey, people! Look at us!” It may just be in response to a question or answer or a look or a caress. I love that we are both in tune with this little activity and there was no prompting from either of us. The park we were in was somewhat busy with people, families, children. But there are so many different paths you can take, and the park is big enough that we found ourselves alone much of the time. I noticed that she likes to squeeze, caress, and pat my bottom and awful lot!
As afternoon turned to evening, we finally packed up and headed home. Once we got to Hannah’s place (that she shares with a roommate), I parked the car and we got out to talk some more and kiss goodnight. I think Hannah enjoys that she’s been able to share very intimate and intense details of her life, without me getting spooked or becoming judgmental or treating her differently. As I got in my car and started to back out of the parking spot, she came over and leaned in my window and said, “So, when are you planning on coming to bed with me?”
Now, the animal in me (and there is an animal in all of us) wanted to jump out of the car while it was running and take her in the bushes right then and there! But the gentleman in me had to remain calm, cool, and collected. I said, “Whenever you invite me.” She stared at me for a minute as I smiled at her. Then she gave me a peck on the cheek and whispered in my ear, “Stay tuned.” I am definitely staying tuned!
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Yeah, me too! I was beginning to despair for a while there.
Tad
Dimensions' loiterer
Good response to her question -- not easy to have such a perfect response on the spot. 
You better believe it! My mouth was watering at the thought!Good response to her question -- not easy to have such a perfect response on the spot.
She called me a yesterday and remarked that it made her curious that I didn't just jump her bones (old school saying) right then and there. I thought to myself that my Jedi mind trick is working!
GeeseHoward
Active Member
I'm glad to hear that you've had a hell of an amount of luck BEK. I hope it all works out for you...
Yes. So far so good @GeeseHoward
Tad
Dimensions' loiterer
This was long ago and in younger days, but I made my wife take things slow when we were dating, and I've never regretted it. Having time to savour kisses and touches, then adding a bit more and making the most of it, and then a bit more, and so on. I think it makes you both become very aware of various types and degrees of intimacy.
Still a Skye fan
Normalcy is overrated
I'm so pleased that things are going so well with you and your new lady. Your posts put a smile on my face. My best to you both, sir!
littlefairywren
Wren
This has become one of my favourite threads, BEK. It makes me cry happy tears.
lizzie_lotr
Well-Known Member
I love reading your posts. So sweet and genuine. I wish you nothing but the best!!
Hannah and I have had some pretty interesting conversations this week. Our schedules were such that we've only had time to grab lunch on a couple of days. But she's free this weekend and I only have baby sitting duty on Saturday morning. She says she wants to do some cooking on Saturday evening, so I'm looking forward to that.
We've spent quite a few hours talking on the phone. I love that that she enjoys talking to me about anything. I hope that carries over into other facets of our relationship . I'm thinking this might be a particularly enjoyable weekend. She asked me what my favorite scents are. Oddly enough, they are: vanilla, cherry, almond, and coconut. Is there a pattern there? I let her know that if she were to wear a particular vanilla scent, I cannot be held responsible for the overwhelming amount of cuddles, kisses, hugs, licks, nibbles, (and other things) that would probably ensue. She hit me with the "Oh really?" I assured her that this was true to which she replied, "Alright then, Tarzan. It's on!"
Could the Ol' Sarge be swinging from a vine this weekend? Only time will tell!
We've spent quite a few hours talking on the phone. I love that that she enjoys talking to me about anything. I hope that carries over into other facets of our relationship
. I'm thinking this might be a particularly enjoyable weekend. She asked me what my favorite scents are. Oddly enough, they are: vanilla, cherry, almond, and coconut. Is there a pattern there? I let her know that if she were to wear a particular vanilla scent, I cannot be held responsible for the overwhelming amount of cuddles, kisses, hugs, licks, nibbles, (and other things) that would probably ensue. She hit me with the "Oh really?" I assured her that this was true to which she replied, "Alright then, Tarzan. It's on!"Could the Ol' Sarge be swinging from a vine this weekend? Only time will tell!
