I've really enjoyed reading through this thread. It reminded me of some of the things I loved about being with a SSBBW. I loved thinking ahead to accommodate her needs. It was never a burden and felt so wonderful how often very simple acts allowed her to do things with dignity, safety and comfort. All those little things were constant reminders of how much I cared for her, and at the same time I know she felt cared for too. It brought us together in so many ways. Even going to the grocery store together made me feel like the luckiest guy ever.