Discussion in 'BHM/FFA' started by Surlysomething, Feb 15, 2009.
I'm so sorry to hear that about your puppy. Is there any tests they can do to find out?
I'm down, that's 2 out of 3... Now ODFFA, WE NEED A CROWD!!!
Also I confess I've hit a dating hot streak. This is good.
I need to be writing my giant research paper but I'm sick and all I want to do is curl up under my blankets and watch Supernatural on Netflix.
Sometimes the only place I want to be is in my car.
Surly's above post made me think of driving thru a wet pine forest after a hard shower when the smell of fresh pine permeates the air and washes every stressful thought away.
So... I have came to the conclusion that no matter what I do, I will always be wrong, no matter what I say or do and I am pretty sure that to some people, I am just the Devil!! :doh: :blink:
Sup Satan? I enjoy your work and would like to subscribe to your newsletter.
that is wrong, you are wrong for saying that. Wrong.
And to take a line from my nephew's favorite movie, Wreck It Ralph - "It's pronounced Sateen"
Thanks for letting me know I was wrong, I am so used to being right, all the time!
Speaking of being wrong, I had absolutely no idea that that was Ricky Gervais playing the lead in The Invention of Lying
Should be good then.
I confess that I am sick of people trying to take advantage of my kindness.
I have not been on Skype for months as there is this friend there who tries to convince me to come on cam and present myself as wank-material every time we talk. Every. Single. Time. He is really nice and helpful other than that though.
I finally got the courage today to go back on Skype and he starts it again. So I end up telling him straight that I am not interested in doing those things with him (he was talking about how bad things have happened to him and he really wants somebody who can be a friend and a sexual partner). His response was basically to ignore me and then when I said I was going offline he said something to the effect of how he was 'sure we could come to a compromise on the sexual things'. And it just pissed. me. off.
I don't owe him this. I don't have to compromise on anything or do anything I'm not comfortable with and I am sick of feeling guilty and being emotionally blackmailed into these things. It isn't fair that I have been chased away from my Skype because of this. He is a super nice person other than that thought, really sweet and thoughtful, so I end up feeling like a jerk.
To be honest I'm kinda sick of all my 'friends' on there. Most of the guys only want to convince me to cam with them or whine and complain about how it isn't fair I don't want to be their girlfriend and I am just sick of it. I don't want any of this. I admit I am seriously considering just blocking them all.
They might seem like nice people but they obviously aren't if they just want to manipulate me into doing things I don't want to do.
Honestly, I'd just block them and remove anybody else who gives you that type of scenario. That isn't fair for you and you shouldn't have to feel guilty for using Skype.
I was incredibly drunk and talking to a friend a few days ago. I was unfortunately that person. I asked her for a picture of herself. I've done this one other time to her. When I came to, I felt incredibly shitty. It still bothers me that my mind went there, but I was drunk and it's in the past. Luckily she's one of the most amazing people I've never met and she handled it with poise and that was the end of that.
With all that being said, you, as a grown ass adult, have the right to tell anyone to fuck right off for any reason. Especially if that reason is that they make you feel bad about yourself. Don't let other assholes hold you back.
Chin up, chest out, and keep moving forward.
I agree with Hozay and Lil. If a person can not accept your boundaries, then they are not worth your time in any capacity.
Anyone who is nice to you only to try to get something from you isn't actually a nice person. You deserve to be treated well and have your boundaries respected.
Loop, I tend to agree with the others. You've told him how you feel, he doesn't get it or doesn't want to get it.....enough said.
Every ending is a new beginning. Spend your time in search of better friends and you might find what it is YOU want from a friendship.
I confess I've got a hot date on Friday, to a cool bar with arcade games and I'm not even all that excited for it.
pecan pie made (check) corn muffins for dressing (check) overloaded pizza (check check)
Thank you all so much, you are all such awesome people, I know you are right but it sinks in more hearing it from other people, you know? So thank you.
And Hozay, I'm glad she handled it that well, and I hope the date goes well too!
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