Y'all talked me into posting.

My name is Lou, 69-y.o. straight male [FWIW], one cat, and one large g.f. (~240-lbs.), who's about a year and a half older than me (I always liked older girls then, as I became an adult, older women). I live in San Francisco, Stephanie lives in the East Bay so we don't see each other that often but do have catch up phone chats every Sunday. We
did get together last week and let me tell you she looked
hot.
I'm a memeber of a couple of other forums, all cat (housecat) related. As a matter of fact, I'm co-owner of two of those Groups. My experience is that about 30% of the members of any group post regularly. If I become a regular poster, I'll add a photo.
I've enjoyed reading the message boards over the past several months, ever since I started getting daily Message Board digests.
That's it from here on the Left Coast.