Consider, Mermaid, that not all of us are dreaming about jeans sizes, bigger or smaller. Some of us have other dreams. For example, I'd love to hear another fat woman be able to say honestly and openly, "I like myself for who I am. I may have tough days when self-acceptance is hard, but most days, I'm happy with who I am, whether I wear a size 18, 28 or 36."
Sorry, but this bothers me... She is entitled to her own opinion and that is obviously something she would like to say.... It can be different from yours...oh, well i understand your point and i didn't mean to generalize.
We are about size acceptance here, all sizes, right? Even smaller ones.