mathfa
Well-Known Member
Hello all,
As I have mentioned before on here, I am a thin guy in a relationship with a beautiful, larger lady. She asked to start coming with me to the gym together soon, and today made a comment asking me to not be too "hardcore" (trust me, I'm not
), and I kind of got the vibe she was a little worried about it. She doesn't usually talk about her weight, but said something like, "you can't understand some things". She didn't say it a negative way towards me or anything, just was stating it.
I wanted to ask the folks on here, what are things I should be keeping in mind with making sure she feels comfortable? To the larger people on here, what would you want your partner to do or not do in this situation? I care a lot about her and want her to be able to feel okay and secure. Obviously I will be a good listener for anything else she brings up, without forcing the issue.
Thanks everyone.
As I have mentioned before on here, I am a thin guy in a relationship with a beautiful, larger lady. She asked to start coming with me to the gym together soon, and today made a comment asking me to not be too "hardcore" (trust me, I'm not
), and I kind of got the vibe she was a little worried about it. She doesn't usually talk about her weight, but said something like, "you can't understand some things". She didn't say it a negative way towards me or anything, just was stating it.I wanted to ask the folks on here, what are things I should be keeping in mind with making sure she feels comfortable? To the larger people on here, what would you want your partner to do or not do in this situation? I care a lot about her and want her to be able to feel okay and secure. Obviously I will be a good listener for anything else she brings up, without forcing the issue.
Thanks everyone.
