(No idea if this is in the right subforum or not) I recently had a little realisation that aside from admiring larger ladies in their many varieties, I'd also be open to gaining a bit of weight myself...but with that came a little caveat. Somehow, getting fat on my own would seem "off" somehow, a little awkward at best and lonely at worst. But *being* fattened by a partner, and one with whom I'm in a committed relationships? Somehow that is an incredible turn-on. It's weird because it's specific and general at the same time - I'd be ok with a skinny girl fattening me up, or a big girl, or a skinny girl and me getting big together - but again, just going for it on my lonesome has no attraction to me. So that's my question - what are YOUR fantasies that are weirdly specific? And do you ever think they'll be realised in a way that even slightly matches your imagination?