Discussion in 'Fat sexuality' started by doublejm1, Jan 30, 2015.
Beautiful. I like it when he calls me soft and fluffy too.
This is interesting! I don't mind inclusion of fat or big but i'd prefer if my partner prefaces them with a softer adjective like sexy or naughty or some variation therein. I think it depends on the partner, if I know they're massively into my curves, them saying 'let me smack that sexy fat ass' gives me that boost of confidence I sometimes need while bearing all. But if I detect even a little bit of awkwardness or uncomfortableness in their manner or tone, I start to reflect that feeling and that can really ruin sexy times. I prefer for my partner to focus on themes to the effect of 'I want you so bad', 'I've been thinking about fucking you all day', 'your naughty ass is going to get smacked', 'let me grab your belly' etc! Anything that lets me know he really wants me and loves my curves makes me feel hot/in the mood!
With women, it's different. I really don't like when a woman uses dirty talk that alludes to my size, I went to an all-girls high school so I guess I still have a certain level of shame at a sub-conscious level, I should probably try to look into that. From women, I like when she calls my various parts gorgeous, beautiful, fiiiine, etc. all the standard sexy adjectives.
I also like dirty talk about domination from both men and women
I call my wife "chubbykins" because she is chubby and cute
'my goddess' lol
I was thinking "My Queen" but goddess will work too.
I'm not picky. Both will work. (got a caffeine buzz going on here. lol)
That shouldn't be hard for you!
My honey loved "big girl" and "fat fox." There's more but a gentleman never tells.
I love when an older thread is revived because sometimes I go back and see what I said a few years ago and if anything has changed over the years.
Generally speaking my wife is still the more vulgar one and I follow her lead. So that much has remained the same. She has grown a bit more risqué though, likes telling me stuff like “make my big fat ass jiggle” or stuff like that.
A while back she had been especially vulgar with her dirty talk. (This doesn’t happen all the time but when it does it’ll make sailors blush.) A little while after that I asked if she wanted me to talk dirty back and she said no, it’s not my place or roll. Her roll is the dirty talk, my roll is to whimper (don’t make fun of me, you know what I’m talking about) and worship her body while telling her how perfect she is.
That’s a growth in assertiveness since the early days of this thread.
Oh god, I could never cope with being called "Goddess" again, my ex used to call me that all the time. Including in a scathing tone during arguments, hah. I will accept just about any other exaggerated compliment though!
Princess is what my ex would called...no princess here...
My wife would probably die laughing if I called her princess!
This is something I'm particularly fond of, especially from a woman with great intellect. Abandoning their usual prim and proper ways (yeah, I know that not everyone is normally all prim and proper, but you get my drift) during an intense love making session (or F%^*!#& if you prefer) is quite the turn-on. Let's hear it for letting loose and getting dirty!
So you're okay with her screaming as she is about to c*m ... "I love having your massive c*ck in me!!" while she is riding you? LOL
You better believe it! And just to be clear: this is not an ego thing. Rather, I think more than anything, I love the thought of freeing a person to be themselves and explore all facets of their sexuality. The freedom from fear of rejection, freedom to have what they desire, freedom to embrace themselves. There is a great lifting of weight when those fears are released. There is liberation. There is imagination. And certainly if the other is willing and able...
Being French, I like calling my lover : Ma belle
Or words to that effect, yes! Love it, in fact.
I totally get it. In my wife’s case it’s a side of her she only reveals to certain people and in certain settings. It’s exciting when she does. It’s not just an everyday thing. I think that’s part of what makes it so special.
I agree totally! The whole "a lady in the street but a freak in the bed" thing.
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