What do you look for in a BBW/BHM?

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Easiest way to do this is as a partial character bio.

Height: Either 5' or 6', give or take a few inches. Not more than 6' 3”. I really like short girls, and tall girls. Two sides of the same inherent dominance factor coin. I also really hate when people are taller than me. So unused to it, it really skeeves me out.
Eyes: Green
Hair: Red
No, I'm not trying to contrast holiday colors. Both of these tend to be vivid and eye catching. And memorable.

Appearance:
Generally slender but with pronounced soft spots. Large, round, tight “bubble butt”, wide hips, definitive tummy bulge, modest but full breasts, soft arms and legs (especially thick thighs), but built on a foundation of muscle for form. Long hair (at least long enough to waterfall on her backside). Overall weight a little above high end for “healthy” range. Long, ovoid face with a defined but not protrusive chin. Small nose with wide nostrils and a fairly long bridge. Eyes just large enough to be expressive without looking creepy. Relatively short forehead/low hairline. Ears well defined and relatively flat against the skull. Mouth about as wide as the distance between iris centers, fairly flat with full lips (not puffy, but not deflated either). Good looking teeth (not blinding white, but not unkempt either).

Personality:
Smart, sarcastic, witty. Knows when to joke and when to be serious. Able to at least appreciate similar humor in others. Fiery, strong willed, opinionated and not afraid to speak her mind. A bit acidic at times. A bit of a tigress behind closed doors, yet refined and proper around company. Good cook, enough knowledge of computers to not drive a techie crazy. Decently handy overall, not helpless. Not one to need protection, able to watch her own back. Just a little the other side of sane.



Almost me in a nutshell, except I am brown eyed and auburn haired.
 

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My fantasy BBW would be a woman who is my height and is an apple/pear hybrid-shaped slightly tan woman around 250-300 pounds. She would have brunette hair with slight red hight lights and crystal blues eyes. Completely round, completely fluffy, and completely a sweetheart. A down to Earth, down for Heaven girl with the most gloriest of bellies, with of coarse a bulbous bubble butt to complement. She would be someone to cuddle up with through the worst of times and knows exactly how to cheer me up when I'm down, and that I could do the same with her.
 

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I saw no intro thread as I was going to post there first if there was one. Anyhow though, since this is a fantasy thread I'll go ahead and share my BBW/SSBBW fantasy as well. Beware though, it will probably come across highly unrealistic lol.
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My fantasy SSBBW would be 400+ pounds in look and not necessarily scale weight. Somebody said it already but I also like the larger look of SSBBW 'women. Her height would be between 5'0 and 5'3 'cause I have always liked shorter women more, especially since I'm 6'1 lol. I don't like women who are taller than me...call it a flaw..but it is what it is lol. Pertaining to her skin color, I prefer a sort of brownskin complexion but any shade of ebony would be fine as long as they are not midnight or sillouhette dark lol. She would have long hair or hair at least down to the middle of her back. Body wise, I don't dislike them but I'm not too big a fan of breasts so I wouldn't care if they were on the smaller side. I do like an SSBBW belly but I don't have a preference as to how it looks or if they even have one. I am a DEFINITE butt and pear-shape man so my ideal SSBBW would have big wide hips, huge chocolate thighs, and a giant, jutting shelf booty probably somewhere between 95 and 101 inches if you need measurements lol. Her booty wouldn't be disfigured either, it'd be legitmately huge and plump as it could be at that size.

Her eyes would be brown or light brown and her body, especially her butt, would be nice and soft and jiggly. Her face would have a single chin and she wouldn't look fat in the face at all. I think I covered everything but If I forgot something let me know lol.

Like I said before, this is probably highly unrealistic without the use of photoshop and I've literally only seen a 3 or 4 girls who can come close to this, even though I'm not holding any woman to this unrealistic standard. Oh, I'm new here BTW lol, though I don't consider myself an FA. I won't hijack this thread on the reasons why but I'll probably end up tellin ya'll in another topic somewhere.
 

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Phsyically: She has to be 350 pounds, white, with blonde, or brown-blonde hair. She has to have big sized boobs and a double stomach. She has to have a very prettty, chubby face. Her legs have to be in good shape, I don't want a girl with ugly legs. They can be nice and big, but they need to look good. She has to have one of the biggest asses ever, and her whole body needs to look fine.

Characteristics: She has to have a good character, be funny, nice, and all of that good stuff.
 

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I'm kind of shallow on my list, but I really am not as picky as this.







My 8 Features A Fat Girl Must Have:

- Great Personality
- Good-Looking Face
- Double Chin
- Atleast 400 pounds
- Flabby Arms (Has to be atleast 12 inches when hanging)
- Double Stomach or alot of rolls (Either works)
- Nice thick thighs (24 inches or thicker
- Big Ass (Should measure atleast 60 inches going all the way around)
 

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Sweet jesus you're specific. lol

I'll reply when I come back from my date with my girlfriend. lol

I'm not as bad as that sounds. 400 pounds + the personality with any of the others is fine, and if she isn't 400, me and her can get her there. :smitten:
 

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I'm kind of shallow on my list, but I really am not as picky as this.







My 8 Features A Fat Girl Must Have:

- Great Personality
- Good-Looking Face
- Double Chin
- Atleast 400 pounds
- Flabby Arms (Has to be atleast 12 inches when hanging)
- Double Stomach or alot of rolls (Either works)
- Nice thick thighs (24 inches or thicker
- Big Ass (Should measure atleast 60 inches going all the way around)


I like how personality is mentioned only in the vaguest way possible while you are much more explicit as to the physical aspects you find pleasing.
 

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I like how personality is mentioned only in the vaguest way possible while you are much more explicit as to the physical aspects you find pleasing.

THANK YOU for noticing that too . . .
 

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I'm kind of shallow on my list, but I really am not as picky as this.







My 8 Features A Fat Girl Must Have:

- Great Personality
- Good-Looking Face
- Double Chin
- Atleast 400 pounds
- Flabby Arms (Has to be atleast 12 inches when hanging)
- Double Stomach or alot of rolls (Either works)
- Nice thick thighs (24 inches or thicker
- Big Ass (Should measure atleast 60 inches going all the way around)

Personality should ALWAYS be on top of the list when looking into any kind of women. If I were to pick 8 features a BBW woman must have, mine would be this:
- Great Personality
- A trait that makes her different and distinguished from anyone else.
- 250-400 pound range
- All about roundness (Belly, Breasts, and Butt)
- Someone that I can cuddle up with through good times and bad
- Proud of her size and not be self-conscious about it
- Optimistic
- Knows how to party and have a good time
 

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Personality and character.

As I like to say a lot of the time "I am attracted to (You/Big Women) because of the body, I stick around for (Your/Their) personality".
 

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I was thinking the same thing....

Because the title of this thread is "What do you look for in a BBW/BHM". It's not titled "What personality traits do you like."

I'm not sure what the OP had in mind, but it's definitely very common for FAs to be thought of as being attracted to anyone of a certain size. I'm pretty sure every single one of us has had somebody point out a random fat person and been asked "Is s/he hot?" or "Is that your type?" FAs are just as particular as anyone else when it comes to attraction, "regular" people are not just attracted to every single skinny man or woman.
 

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Because the title of this thread is "What do you look for in a BBW/BHM". It's not titled "What personality traits do you like."

I'm not sure what the OP had in mind, but it's definitely very common for FAs to be thought of as being attracted to anyone of a certain size. I'm pretty sure every single one of us has had somebody point out a random fat person and been asked "Is s/he hot?" or "Is that your type?" FAs are just as particular as anyone else when it comes to attraction, "regular" people are not just attracted to every single skinny man or woman.
My reading comprehension is right on target and I haven't misunderstood anything. As both a BBW and FA I find it discouraging that while there are countless threads on Dimensions extolling the virtues of the physical, asses and bellies and rolls, oh my....it would be nice to know what other FAs do indeed find attractive in the non-physical since that is also part of the makeup of what we are attracted to.

The title of the thread did not exclude non-physical aspects and I was disappointed that until it was pointed out that no one took advantage of sharing that as I was curious to that aspect of attraction as well.
 

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My reading comprehension is right on target and I haven't misunderstood anything. As both a BBW and FA I find it discouraging that while there are countless threads on Dimensions extolling the virtues of the physical, asses and bellies and rolls, oh my....it would be nice to know what other FAs do indeed find attractive in the non-physical since that is also part of the makeup of what we are attracted to.

The title of the thread did not exclude non-physical aspects and I was disappointed that until it was pointed out that no one took advantage of sharing that as I was curious to that aspect of attraction as well.

Understandable, but I do have to say this:

If you're bothered by or uncomfortable with a discussion of physical aspects that FAs are interested in, then perhaps the FA/FFA board is not for you.
 

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Understandable, but I do have to say this:

If you're bothered by or uncomfortable with a discussion of physical aspects that FAs are interested in, then perhaps the FA/FFA board is not for you.
I didn't find it offensive nor do I dismiss the discussion. It is valid to me as well.

It is curious that while I didn't mention (or think there is) anything WRONG with the thread, that because I pointed out a concern that your response is basically, 'if you don't like it, leave'. I have as much right to contribute to this thread and board as any other FA especially in light of the fact that I did so in a respectful and thoughtful manner.
 

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I didn't find it offensive nor do I dismiss the discussion. It is valid to me as well.

It is curious that while I didn't mention (or think there is) anything WRONG with the thread, that because I pointed out a concern that your response is basically, 'if you don't like it, leave'. I have as much right to contribute to this thread and board as any other FA especially in light of the fact that I did so in a respectful and thoughtful manner.


I hope you continue to contribute in this forum.
 

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